She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
So you pritty much waisted 6 years of your life and gained nothing. cool.organizedconfusion said:welcome to 2001..for me actually..i learned about all of these teachings waaaay when i was only 20 or so,i even misapplied some of the techniques and got into serious trouble.Good sh*t though,if i knew this stuff growing up- i would've done some things differently.All in all,you become what you think about and you sub-conciosly attract the things and situations into your life that coencide with your inner beliefs systems basicly,theres alot more to it then that but that seems to be the general mantra of it all...Imagination and visualization is also a big part of it. i used to be SOO into this type of stuff,i even took about 6 years out of my life just to master it.All in all,i am the same person and though i do know alot about how this system and how the mind works and does things for us..i still dwell on the negative aspects and i still kinda just use it haphazardly and not really focus or hone in all of my true potential.
It's all about doing $h!t and sotp dreaming. Stop haveing faith and start questining. find your own answers.bbestar said:Its all about having faith, things that are unseen.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
wolf116 said:So you pritty much waisted 6 years of your life and gained nothing. cool.
This has totally put me off waisting my life thinking about this stuff
wow, you sound as wise as a bag of d*cks.wide bikes,box in the wing,scewing my gurl.you don't sound too smart,maybe you should keep your mouth shut and do what you do best..being a brainless tool :rockon:wolf116 said:It's all about doing $h!t and sotp dreaming. Stop haveing faith and start questining. find your own answers.
Take action to get what you want. Dont dream about being rich. Go do it if thats what you want. study the stockmarket or get a buisness or some $h!t.
Me I dont care about all that stuff. I just love rideing motor bikes, fighting in the ring. and screwing my girl. I'm doing it all.
Everyone has seen those hippy dudes that dream all day but do nothing. Dont let this rubbish brainwash you (It almost got me).
possitive thinking and visuliseing are good tools. Everyone alredy knows that tho.
let me quess...you still sound out your word while you type? real classy :woo: i bet you don't even do half the s*it you say you do...wolf116 said:It's all about doing $h!t and sotp dreaming. Stop haveing faith and start questining. find your own answers.
Take action to get what you want. Dont dream about being rich. Go do it if thats what you want. study the stockmarket or get a buisness or some $h!t.
Me I dont care about all that stuff. I just love rideing motor bikes, fighting in the ring. and screwing my girl. I'm doing it all.
Everyone has seen those hippy dudes that dream all day but do nothing. Dont let this rubbish brainwash you (It almost got me).
possitive thinking and visuliseing are good tools. Everyone alredy knows that tho.
I study mechanicial engineering at uni. I aint dumb. only at english. It just seems the whole video is focused on money. money brings no happiness. Im just saying all the things that make me happy are cheap.organizedconfusion said:wow, you sound as wise as a bag of d*cks.wide bikes,box in the wing,scewing my gurl.you don't sound too smart,maybe you should keep your mouth shut and do what you do best..being a brainless tool :rockon:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.