"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The right approach
- Thread starter powersize
- Start date
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- Tags
- no contact
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How old are you? How old is she? And how long was the relationship?
Meh..... not sure if the 2 scenarios are all that similar. I was never needy and insecure.
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powersize
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Both 25. Man it was only 2 months and 5 months NC since she dumped me. And every fking time when I bump into her i with her to disappear from my city, just do not remind myself the crap i have experienced with her.
That’s nothing. Move on mentally. @Spaz see how it’s not the same at all?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Act as if she doesn't exist. Never address her or acknowledge her presence. If she attempts to speak to you ignore her.
Different scenarios but responded with the same spirit.
OP now you should go read threads by @daproest1
Enjoy exploring the thoughts of ur spiritual twin.
You can’t help yourself can you lol fack.
Na man at 25 after 2 months I wouldn’t care. I’ve had FLINGS last longer than 2 months