Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
ain't the case in NYC playa!That's in most major cities and online dating! Most women in these cities go out for attention, that's why I don't go clubbing. AFAIK, Los Angeles or anywhere in Southern California has women turning their hypergamy up to and past eleven!
Agreed. I've been to Fort Lauderdale many times - man, the girls out there are always out on the beach or partying and soo friendly. MUCH fewer gold diggers out there. I want to check out Tampa/St. Pete. Florida girls know how to party, LA girls don't.L.A. is meh. I've been there a few times and wasn't impressed. There's hot chicks all over. Florida chicks IMO are better looking and seem more down to earth.
Miami / South Beach has a TON of hot chicks too.Agreed. I've been to Fort Lauderdale many times - man, the girls out there are always out on the beach or partying and soo friendly. MUCH fewer gold diggers out there. I want to check out Tampa/St. Pete. Florida girls know how to party, LA girls don't.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I haven't spent enough time in the Pacific Northwest. But I think what makes them hot is their personalities.I've been to Miami, NYC, and LA and I was unimpressed with the women in all three cities. If you like fat to mediocre brown/you can't tell what race they are type of women that don't speak English than it is paradise. The areas with the hottest women are the southeast and shockingly the Pacific Northwest.