I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ain't the case in NYC playa!That's in most major cities and online dating! Most women in these cities go out for attention, that's why I don't go clubbing. AFAIK, Los Angeles or anywhere in Southern California has women turning their hypergamy up to and past eleven!
Agreed. I've been to Fort Lauderdale many times - man, the girls out there are always out on the beach or partying and soo friendly. MUCH fewer gold diggers out there. I want to check out Tampa/St. Pete. Florida girls know how to party, LA girls don't.L.A. is meh. I've been there a few times and wasn't impressed. There's hot chicks all over. Florida chicks IMO are better looking and seem more down to earth.
Miami / South Beach has a TON of hot chicks too.Agreed. I've been to Fort Lauderdale many times - man, the girls out there are always out on the beach or partying and soo friendly. MUCH fewer gold diggers out there. I want to check out Tampa/St. Pete. Florida girls know how to party, LA girls don't.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I haven't spent enough time in the Pacific Northwest. But I think what makes them hot is their personalities.I've been to Miami, NYC, and LA and I was unimpressed with the women in all three cities. If you like fat to mediocre brown/you can't tell what race they are type of women that don't speak English than it is paradise. The areas with the hottest women are the southeast and shockingly the Pacific Northwest.