You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ain't the case in NYC playa!That's in most major cities and online dating! Most women in these cities go out for attention, that's why I don't go clubbing. AFAIK, Los Angeles or anywhere in Southern California has women turning their hypergamy up to and past eleven!
Agreed. I've been to Fort Lauderdale many times - man, the girls out there are always out on the beach or partying and soo friendly. MUCH fewer gold diggers out there. I want to check out Tampa/St. Pete. Florida girls know how to party, LA girls don't.L.A. is meh. I've been there a few times and wasn't impressed. There's hot chicks all over. Florida chicks IMO are better looking and seem more down to earth.
Miami / South Beach has a TON of hot chicks too.Agreed. I've been to Fort Lauderdale many times - man, the girls out there are always out on the beach or partying and soo friendly. MUCH fewer gold diggers out there. I want to check out Tampa/St. Pete. Florida girls know how to party, LA girls don't.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I haven't spent enough time in the Pacific Northwest. But I think what makes them hot is their personalities.I've been to Miami, NYC, and LA and I was unimpressed with the women in all three cities. If you like fat to mediocre brown/you can't tell what race they are type of women that don't speak English than it is paradise. The areas with the hottest women are the southeast and shockingly the Pacific Northwest.