"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Brittany Venti and Rollo both have the same number of subscribers on YouTube right now at 214k. Courtney Ryan has 580k subscribers. Fresh & Fit has 1.47M subscribers. Brett Cooper has 3.27M. Taylor Swift has 53.3M.

I get that if you have such a following you'll definitely try to monetize it.

But as I said, bickering with young thots about the redpill is not a good look.

You're missing the point, the point is this guy been married for nearly 30 years, a lot has changed in the dating market I.E. a guy meeting women in the club in 1990 isn't qualified to give a single guy hitting the field in 2023 advice

That's my point
This is really difficult to refute. He both deserves respect, but at the end of the day we have to stay real.

I agree it's not credible when you advice men about fighting a war while you're never in the trenches getting your boots dirty.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You're missing the point, the point is this guy been married for nearly 30 years, a lot has changed in the dating market I.E. a guy meeting women in the club in 1990 isn't qualified to give a single guy hitting the field in 2023 advice

That's my point
That's a valid point.

bickering with young thots about the redpill is not a good look.
Yes
 

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Rollo is now threatening to sue, this is getting embarrassing. No lawyer with an IQ above 90 is gonna touch the case especially since he asked for the nudes first. Rollo I know you reading this, you are a disgrace to the site and the guys who are actually infield in the trenches while you're doing 5 hour live-streams giggling and being a chattypatty
 

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Rollo is now threatening to sue, this is getting embarrassing. No lawyer with an IQ above 90 is gonna touch the case especially since he asked for the nudes first. Rollo I know you reading this, you are a disgrace to the site and the guys who are actually infield in the trenches while you're doing 5 hour live-streams giggling and being a chattypatty
Rollo is going down with the sinking Fresh and Fraud ship. What does the Red Pill community do now?
 

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Rollo is going down with the sinking Fresh and Fraud ship. What does the Red Pill community do now?
I'm curious what's your disdain with FNF? I have met those guys in person and even did daygame with Fresh (he got a girls number) IMO they are legit
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm curious what's your disdain with FNF? I have met those guys in person and even did daygame with Fresh (he got a girls number) IMO they are legit
I find their shows to be Nouveau ghetto or Hood Rich energy TBH and they basically shvt on the female counterparts of themselves. They want to preach on how to be a high value masculine man, but they are the most emotionally driven crybabies on Youtube.

 

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Nah it can happen, look at China and Russia, if a system like that came to the West they would wipe elon out of history. And I think we are at the verge of China and Russia outgrowing the West. Even without that tho it is always kings, religious leaders, intellectuals and scientists that are remembered by history, i cant even think of any business guys being remembered from the past but many of the former are.
LOL....Russia outgrowing the west!? They are on the verge of becoming a failed state. When Putin falls or dies they wiil probably have civil war and at least parts of Russia will become slaves to China.
They're finished. The economy is down the drain, their military is crap and exhausted and everybody who is young enough and has at least half a brain has fled the country.
Only the idiots, weaklings and old people are still there.
 

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I get that if you have such a following you'll definitely try to monetize it.

But as I said, bickering with young thots about the redpill is not a good look.


This is really difficult to refute. He both deserves respect, but at the end of the day we have to stay real.

I agree it's not credible when you advice men about fighting a war while you're never in the trenches getting your boots dirty.
He's kept a woman for 30 years. I consider that in the trenches. Lol
 

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Does anyone else discuss RP within a marriage? I've only seen "soft dread" in Rollo's books, and it deserves its own book. There's a dozen RP gurus talking about what beginners should do, but I haven't seen others trying to keep desire alive in a LTR or marriage.
I've discussed redpill with my wife. She's sometimes more redpilled than me. She looks right through all the BS other women are doing or saying.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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On the Fresh & Fit podcast Rollo came on as a guest speaker to talk about his tweet. He proceeds to get attacked for not knowing what a HVM is and comparing him to a ‘whale that thinks she’s a 10.’

Rollo trying to discuss the red pill.

I’ve always been suspicious of Rollo, his book, his followers, and this confirms it.

He is a hack and thank god I only listened to good advice he gives which is just general good advice.
Wow, I finally watched this (skipped through some redundant parts). That's as much ado about nothing as I've ever seen. All this over a tweet? Who cares?

To be fair it was 4 v 1 or at least 2 v 1 and those guys were shouting like the ladies on the view. And what's with the blue haired lesbian with the high pitched voice?

On the other hand Rollo was equivocating a lot and lost his cool a couple of times. He seemed way too defensive.

The hosts had no intellectual curiosity, they were stuck to their self identities and arguments, they just wanted to perform a take down and score points.

As for the tweet in question it really is a pointless debate. Rollo seemed to be trolling a little but why not just say that outright. I think debating value of guys like Musk and Shapiro and Bezos is like sports geeks debating Brady vs. Manning. Never ending jerk off that goes nowhere - or at least not worth getting angry over it.

Am not caught up on the rest of the content or what he's suing about (nudes?).
 

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LOL....Russia outgrowing the west!? They are on the verge of becoming a failed state. When Putin falls or dies they wiil probably have civil war and at least parts of Russia will become slaves to China.
They're finished. The economy is down the drain, their military is crap and exhausted and everybody who is young enough and has at least half a brain has fled the country.
Only the idiots, weaklings and old people are still there.
Cnn alert
 

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As for the tweet in question it really is a pointless debate. Rollo seemed to be trolling a little but why not just say that outright. I think debating value of guys like Musk and Shapiro and Bezos is like sports geeks debating Brady vs. Manning. Never ending jerk off that goes nowhere - or at least not worth getting angry over it.
Then answer for Rollo what is a high value male lol?
 

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He's kept a woman for 30 years. I consider that in the trenches. Lol
That's somewhat of an achievement but longevity doesn't mean quality.

We also don't know how Mrs. Tomassi feels about Rollo dealing with late Millennial/Gen Z internet trolls like Brittany Venti and Lauren Southern.


Rollo married his wife after only 8 months of dating, and 4 of those months were non-exclusive.
 

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Rollo doubling down and refusing to take accountability
Brittany's response
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rollo doubling down and refusing to take accountability
Brittany's response
This is a shiit storm.
 

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Rollo doubling down and refusing to take accountability
Brittany's response
These are way too fukking long. Who gets in a YouTube feud?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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