"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The basis of sexual dimorphism in humans (and many other mammals) is that the female reproductive system takes more energy. Males have more energy free to do other things like hunt, build, fight, etc.
You just said what i said but u replaced words testosterone with energy
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's just such an interesting topic that most people, men and women, are unwilling to have. It is part of everyone, unless you have actually taken the time to research the topic entirely. My lady knows I challenge everything and respects me for it. She recommended that I preface these discussions with something like "I don't mean to criticize, I would like to understand your point of view on the subject, so I may ask questions that seem offensive"

Because frankly, these discussions will continue to happen and I can't just sit there and listen to drivel. It's obnoxious. You can usually tell within the first 5 minutes of the person actually has their own beliefs or merely follows the herd. I also won't even attempt online. Studies show that when people read things online they don't agree with, they usually just say "your an idiot" and move on. When these same discussions happen in person, people are more willing to listen.

Since this happened, I sent a message to the op which was a longtime friend. "Thank you for all the memories we shared together." I then blocked her and everyone else in that thread. Those are perfect examples of low quality people...
 

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She was telling me about a Female Empowerment seminar she attend and how 2000 women were at the event. I told her damn, 2000 women you say! What the hell am I doing dating chicks from online when I should be hanging outside venues like that.
She's not used to guys talking to her with courage--nicely done. I'm amused by how much B.S. she threw at you but let you escalate anyway.

Feminists are crazy. Look up my thread on my experience with one...
 

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UPDATE:
I was out with an old buddy the other night and the main girl here came up. I told him briefly about the social media spat. I guess he still talks to her occasionally. We all spent time together in high school.

He mentioned how last time they hung out with her and her husband, that she was a complete a$$hat to her husband, low level flirting with other guys, and talking disrespectful towards her husband. I found it to be quite entertaining that she was quick to pounce on and label me, but obviously has major issues going on in her own love life.

Really makes me wonder about the motivations of some of these self proclaimed feminists.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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UPDATE:
I was out with an old buddy the other night and the main girl here came up. I told him briefly about the social media spat. I guess he still talks to her occasionally. We all spent time together in high school.

He mentioned how last time they hung out with her and her husband, that she was a complete a$$hat to her husband, low level flirting with other guys, and talking disrespectful towards her husband. I found it to be quite entertaining that she was quick to pounce on and label me, but obviously has major issues going on in her own love life.

Really makes me wonder about the motivations of some of these self proclaimed feminists.
everyone has his own truth no need to hate the feminists
 

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Feminist = Massive levels of Insecurity.

There's nothing else other then that.
 

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The most brutal, I want to say even callous treatment I've experienced in dating was given to me by the one woman I've ever tried to see who was a self-proclaimed feminist. I don't know wtf it was, perhaps some mental disorder I didn't know of or just a lack of empathy. She also had an absent father (not that there's anything uncommon about that these days).

That's not what caused it, but I have a hands-off policy with 3rd wave feminists.
 
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Feminism isn’t crazy or illogical. What it has done is given women POWER. Why would they give that POWER back to men under ANY circumstances? For the benefit of family, of society? All women care about is themselves and their goal. If you can help them reach that goal, they will respond to you.

The problem is when society gave women, the gender that creates life, POWER, it’s a deadly combination. Feminism has destroyed the family construct and family home, but now I’m talking like we are in the 1950s..
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