Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Even those guys that drop dead from supposed "congenital heart defects" in my opinion died from steroids. I believe the defect wasn't congenital at all, I believe the steroids CAUSED the defect, its just that medical science is stupid and thinks that all heart defects are congenital.Bible_Belt said:The problem is that they work, and do so very effectively.
And then, years later, your body just falls apart. When I see news about guys collapsing and dying after mma fights, steroids is the first thing that comes to mind. It happened in South Carolina last month. When an athlete suddenly dies, typically they either had a previously undiscovered heart defect, or the death was the result of years of steroid abuse. Maybe they would have been fine had they not been so stupid about the amounts and types they took, but they are still dead nonetheless.
Pretty much every UFC fighter is doping with testosterone or HGH. It will be a big scandal someday.
the mentality of the guy in the documentary and his brothers is really stupid, that guy wants to look like arnold but only does strength training. after all the years he still never learned the difference between bodybuilding and weightlifting. he thinks he can look like arnold buy only doing 1 rep maximums on bench and squat LOL, ****ing jackasses.Who Dares Win said:I suggest anyone interested in the topic to watch the documentary BIGGER,STRONGER,FASTER to have a more complete view of steroids and what turns around them whetever is business,money,sport or ego.
Here the intro:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K3TcPdPBfUQ
You will easily see through your childhood hero and how media fvcked our heads.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
LOL, as if there are not any more pressing concerns on the table at the moment..like sedentary, obese individuals who do jack sh!t to improve themselves physically (versus those taking anabolics and working out consistently)Bible_Belt said:Doping now a ‘public health issue’ says WHO doctor
09/23/12
"If we believe that around three percent of high school boys in the U.S. are taking a steroid or growth hormone, then that's a public health issue," said Dr. Timothy Armstrong of the World Health Organization.
http://www.fyibehealthy.com/2012/09/23/doping-now-a-public-health-issue-says-who-doctor/
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.