Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Even those guys that drop dead from supposed "congenital heart defects" in my opinion died from steroids. I believe the defect wasn't congenital at all, I believe the steroids CAUSED the defect, its just that medical science is stupid and thinks that all heart defects are congenital.Bible_Belt said:The problem is that they work, and do so very effectively.
And then, years later, your body just falls apart. When I see news about guys collapsing and dying after mma fights, steroids is the first thing that comes to mind. It happened in South Carolina last month. When an athlete suddenly dies, typically they either had a previously undiscovered heart defect, or the death was the result of years of steroid abuse. Maybe they would have been fine had they not been so stupid about the amounts and types they took, but they are still dead nonetheless.
Pretty much every UFC fighter is doping with testosterone or HGH. It will be a big scandal someday.
the mentality of the guy in the documentary and his brothers is really stupid, that guy wants to look like arnold but only does strength training. after all the years he still never learned the difference between bodybuilding and weightlifting. he thinks he can look like arnold buy only doing 1 rep maximums on bench and squat LOL, ****ing jackasses.Who Dares Win said:I suggest anyone interested in the topic to watch the documentary BIGGER,STRONGER,FASTER to have a more complete view of steroids and what turns around them whetever is business,money,sport or ego.
Here the intro:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K3TcPdPBfUQ
You will easily see through your childhood hero and how media fvcked our heads.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
LOL, as if there are not any more pressing concerns on the table at the moment..like sedentary, obese individuals who do jack sh!t to improve themselves physically (versus those taking anabolics and working out consistently)Bible_Belt said:Doping now a ‘public health issue’ says WHO doctor
09/23/12
"If we believe that around three percent of high school boys in the U.S. are taking a steroid or growth hormone, then that's a public health issue," said Dr. Timothy Armstrong of the World Health Organization.
http://www.fyibehealthy.com/2012/09/23/doping-now-a-public-health-issue-says-who-doctor/
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.