Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Even those guys that drop dead from supposed "congenital heart defects" in my opinion died from steroids. I believe the defect wasn't congenital at all, I believe the steroids CAUSED the defect, its just that medical science is stupid and thinks that all heart defects are congenital.Bible_Belt said:The problem is that they work, and do so very effectively.
And then, years later, your body just falls apart. When I see news about guys collapsing and dying after mma fights, steroids is the first thing that comes to mind. It happened in South Carolina last month. When an athlete suddenly dies, typically they either had a previously undiscovered heart defect, or the death was the result of years of steroid abuse. Maybe they would have been fine had they not been so stupid about the amounts and types they took, but they are still dead nonetheless.
Pretty much every UFC fighter is doping with testosterone or HGH. It will be a big scandal someday.
the mentality of the guy in the documentary and his brothers is really stupid, that guy wants to look like arnold but only does strength training. after all the years he still never learned the difference between bodybuilding and weightlifting. he thinks he can look like arnold buy only doing 1 rep maximums on bench and squat LOL, ****ing jackasses.Who Dares Win said:I suggest anyone interested in the topic to watch the documentary BIGGER,STRONGER,FASTER to have a more complete view of steroids and what turns around them whetever is business,money,sport or ego.
Here the intro:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K3TcPdPBfUQ
You will easily see through your childhood hero and how media fvcked our heads.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
LOL, as if there are not any more pressing concerns on the table at the moment..like sedentary, obese individuals who do jack sh!t to improve themselves physically (versus those taking anabolics and working out consistently)Bible_Belt said:Doping now a ‘public health issue’ says WHO doctor
09/23/12
"If we believe that around three percent of high school boys in the U.S. are taking a steroid or growth hormone, then that's a public health issue," said Dr. Timothy Armstrong of the World Health Organization.
http://www.fyibehealthy.com/2012/09/23/doping-now-a-public-health-issue-says-who-doctor/
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.