"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Positive Thread

Kpocalypse

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What's up guys!

I've noticed that there's a lot of negativity around here and that there aren't so many positive threads. I know I’ve whined about stuff too, but I want to balance it out. So I thought I'd start a positive thread.
Post the thing about you that makes you feel good. It can be anything from a pair of socks to your life principles, as long as it makes you FEEL GOOD about yourself.
This thread is meant to bring out the positive stuff inside of us, so I hope you'll keep it alive.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kpocalypse

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Oh come on now, don't be shy guys.
 

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A positive attiude is a good thing to have.

Personnaly I like good food and nice scenic views. Calming, relaxing, happiness. Absorb yourelf in the moment its the last time youll be able to experience it.
 

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Funny I posted in the negative thread. Now i'll post in the positive.

One thing that has really helped me recently is reading things like the Bhagavad Ghita and other Eastern Religions.

They talk about the importance of Detachment.

In a way detachment makes you neutral, but still it is way better than being negative, and generally when you don't sweat stuff as much (which being detached allows you to do) your natural positive state will return.

Now If I could just stay in this state.

Well there are two ways I've found to amplify it

Exercise and eating well

and also music (so it's 3 ways)

Tony Robbins even recommends listing all the things and ways that you have to make yourself feel good. There are actually alot of ways. Keep those in mind!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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