"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

The Positive Thread

Kpocalypse

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 25, 2005
Messages
36
Reaction score
0
Age
36
What's up guys!

I've noticed that there's a lot of negativity around here and that there aren't so many positive threads. I know I’ve whined about stuff too, but I want to balance it out. So I thought I'd start a positive thread.
Post the thing about you that makes you feel good. It can be anything from a pair of socks to your life principles, as long as it makes you FEEL GOOD about yourself.
This thread is meant to bring out the positive stuff inside of us, so I hope you'll keep it alive.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Kpocalypse

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 25, 2005
Messages
36
Reaction score
0
Age
36
Oh come on now, don't be shy guys.
 

Brian20o2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 24, 2005
Messages
958
Reaction score
3
Location
Paradise (with rain)
A positive attiude is a good thing to have.

Personnaly I like good food and nice scenic views. Calming, relaxing, happiness. Absorb yourelf in the moment its the last time youll be able to experience it.
 

Ricky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2002
Messages
4,140
Reaction score
899
Age
52
Funny I posted in the negative thread. Now i'll post in the positive.

One thing that has really helped me recently is reading things like the Bhagavad Ghita and other Eastern Religions.

They talk about the importance of Detachment.

In a way detachment makes you neutral, but still it is way better than being negative, and generally when you don't sweat stuff as much (which being detached allows you to do) your natural positive state will return.

Now If I could just stay in this state.

Well there are two ways I've found to amplify it

Exercise and eating well

and also music (so it's 3 ways)

Tony Robbins even recommends listing all the things and ways that you have to make yourself feel good. There are actually alot of ways. Keep those in mind!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Top