"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Positive Thread

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What's up guys!

I've noticed that there's a lot of negativity around here and that there aren't so many positive threads. I know I’ve whined about stuff too, but I want to balance it out. So I thought I'd start a positive thread.
Post the thing about you that makes you feel good. It can be anything from a pair of socks to your life principles, as long as it makes you FEEL GOOD about yourself.
This thread is meant to bring out the positive stuff inside of us, so I hope you'll keep it alive.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Oh come on now, don't be shy guys.
 

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A positive attiude is a good thing to have.

Personnaly I like good food and nice scenic views. Calming, relaxing, happiness. Absorb yourelf in the moment its the last time youll be able to experience it.
 

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Funny I posted in the negative thread. Now i'll post in the positive.

One thing that has really helped me recently is reading things like the Bhagavad Ghita and other Eastern Religions.

They talk about the importance of Detachment.

In a way detachment makes you neutral, but still it is way better than being negative, and generally when you don't sweat stuff as much (which being detached allows you to do) your natural positive state will return.

Now If I could just stay in this state.

Well there are two ways I've found to amplify it

Exercise and eating well

and also music (so it's 3 ways)

Tony Robbins even recommends listing all the things and ways that you have to make yourself feel good. There are actually alot of ways. Keep those in mind!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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