"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The pictures game....

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i've played this sort of game before, never ends up well on my end.

So what? i like shorter, cuter, spunkier girls. Preferably skinny but not enough to see bones.

The kind who'll give me the finger with a smile. :)

Most of the chicks shown so far are hot, but it's just not what i'm looking for anymore.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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daygameguy said:
In many cases, I find cute HB 8s more appealing to me than hot HB 9s...
This is true for me also.
When I see a HB9 or 10, I feel like ****ing her right then and there.
But when I see a HB8-7 I feel like I want to get to know her better.
Hb6 and 5's I feel like taking advantage of because they're kinda easy to pick up.
Anything less than a hb5 I feel like slapping them until they're afraid of stepping out the house.

For example, this girl is a hb7.5. I'm more attracted to her than to a hb 9.
http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/GM/KU/SLOUHLNLQTBB.jpg
 

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r0cky said:
This is true for me also.
When I see a HB9 or 10, I feel like ****ing her right then and there.
But when I see a HB8-7 I feel like I want to get to know her better.
Hb6 and 5's I feel like taking advantage of because they're kinda easy to pick up.
Anything less than a hb5 I feel like slapping them until they're afraid of stepping out the house.

For example, this girl is a hb7.5. I'm more attracted to her than to a hb 9.
http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/GM/KU/SLOUHLNLQTBB.jpg
I'm sure she'd look like an 8.5 if she puts on her makeup and dolls up her hair..

As I said, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder..

but the perfect 10s and SHB 11s will always be on top of my desire list... no second thoughts on that lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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supam said:
If she knew you were defending her rating like that, lol she would marry you instantly..

honestly, she is about 7/8 in her best shots.
 

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The ratings on hotornot.com are so often disgustingly inaccurate. Girls I would never even consider touching regularly get ratings in the 7's.
 

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Well I knew tastes varied a lot amongst differently, I just never expected anyone to rate Jackie anything at least under a 7 at worst, but I was wrong!

p.s. I hate this stupid post limit thing, this post should have been posted like 12 hours ago instead of just now.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Synergy's chick and kim kardashin (sp?) wins IMHO. But only a couple of them are 6 and below :p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lmao rex man. Dat 2nd one u posted is def not a 7... more like a 2 or 3 real talk...

N darth 1st one was a 5. I 've seen a lot of 5s n 6s in here. Only 7s n 8s I saw was kim of course, n synergys one...

I'll post sum lata on since im at work now n on da sidekick but how bout we post pics of da girls dat we have or r tryin to get if u have da pics or show us ur exs so we can really see every1 taste Ya Dig
 

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No woman you haven't slept with is an HB 10. That last point to half-point is earned on performance. Having a GF that's an HB 9 who's a "lick-it-around-the-edges" girl with sex hang ups is like owning a Ferrari with a VW engine in it. Looks good, but not worth driving.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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