"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The pictures game....

Aragon034

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i've played this sort of game before, never ends up well on my end.

So what? i like shorter, cuter, spunkier girls. Preferably skinny but not enough to see bones.

The kind who'll give me the finger with a smile. :)

Most of the chicks shown so far are hot, but it's just not what i'm looking for anymore.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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daygameguy said:
In many cases, I find cute HB 8s more appealing to me than hot HB 9s...
This is true for me also.
When I see a HB9 or 10, I feel like ****ing her right then and there.
But when I see a HB8-7 I feel like I want to get to know her better.
Hb6 and 5's I feel like taking advantage of because they're kinda easy to pick up.
Anything less than a hb5 I feel like slapping them until they're afraid of stepping out the house.

For example, this girl is a hb7.5. I'm more attracted to her than to a hb 9.
http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/GM/KU/SLOUHLNLQTBB.jpg
 

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r0cky said:
This is true for me also.
When I see a HB9 or 10, I feel like ****ing her right then and there.
But when I see a HB8-7 I feel like I want to get to know her better.
Hb6 and 5's I feel like taking advantage of because they're kinda easy to pick up.
Anything less than a hb5 I feel like slapping them until they're afraid of stepping out the house.

For example, this girl is a hb7.5. I'm more attracted to her than to a hb 9.
http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/GM/KU/SLOUHLNLQTBB.jpg
I'm sure she'd look like an 8.5 if she puts on her makeup and dolls up her hair..

As I said, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder..

but the perfect 10s and SHB 11s will always be on top of my desire list... no second thoughts on that lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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supam said:
If she knew you were defending her rating like that, lol she would marry you instantly..

honestly, she is about 7/8 in her best shots.
 

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The ratings on hotornot.com are so often disgustingly inaccurate. Girls I would never even consider touching regularly get ratings in the 7's.
 

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Well I knew tastes varied a lot amongst differently, I just never expected anyone to rate Jackie anything at least under a 7 at worst, but I was wrong!

p.s. I hate this stupid post limit thing, this post should have been posted like 12 hours ago instead of just now.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Synergy's chick and kim kardashin (sp?) wins IMHO. But only a couple of them are 6 and below :p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lmao rex man. Dat 2nd one u posted is def not a 7... more like a 2 or 3 real talk...

N darth 1st one was a 5. I 've seen a lot of 5s n 6s in here. Only 7s n 8s I saw was kim of course, n synergys one...

I'll post sum lata on since im at work now n on da sidekick but how bout we post pics of da girls dat we have or r tryin to get if u have da pics or show us ur exs so we can really see every1 taste Ya Dig
 

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No woman you haven't slept with is an HB 10. That last point to half-point is earned on performance. Having a GF that's an HB 9 who's a "lick-it-around-the-edges" girl with sex hang ups is like owning a Ferrari with a VW engine in it. Looks good, but not worth driving.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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