"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The pictures game....

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i've played this sort of game before, never ends up well on my end.

So what? i like shorter, cuter, spunkier girls. Preferably skinny but not enough to see bones.

The kind who'll give me the finger with a smile. :)

Most of the chicks shown so far are hot, but it's just not what i'm looking for anymore.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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daygameguy said:
In many cases, I find cute HB 8s more appealing to me than hot HB 9s...
This is true for me also.
When I see a HB9 or 10, I feel like ****ing her right then and there.
But when I see a HB8-7 I feel like I want to get to know her better.
Hb6 and 5's I feel like taking advantage of because they're kinda easy to pick up.
Anything less than a hb5 I feel like slapping them until they're afraid of stepping out the house.

For example, this girl is a hb7.5. I'm more attracted to her than to a hb 9.
http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/GM/KU/SLOUHLNLQTBB.jpg
 

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r0cky said:
This is true for me also.
When I see a HB9 or 10, I feel like ****ing her right then and there.
But when I see a HB8-7 I feel like I want to get to know her better.
Hb6 and 5's I feel like taking advantage of because they're kinda easy to pick up.
Anything less than a hb5 I feel like slapping them until they're afraid of stepping out the house.

For example, this girl is a hb7.5. I'm more attracted to her than to a hb 9.
http://p1.hotornot.com/pics/HE/HU/GM/KU/SLOUHLNLQTBB.jpg
I'm sure she'd look like an 8.5 if she puts on her makeup and dolls up her hair..

As I said, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder..

but the perfect 10s and SHB 11s will always be on top of my desire list... no second thoughts on that lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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supam said:
If she knew you were defending her rating like that, lol she would marry you instantly..

honestly, she is about 7/8 in her best shots.
 

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The ratings on hotornot.com are so often disgustingly inaccurate. Girls I would never even consider touching regularly get ratings in the 7's.
 

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Well I knew tastes varied a lot amongst differently, I just never expected anyone to rate Jackie anything at least under a 7 at worst, but I was wrong!

p.s. I hate this stupid post limit thing, this post should have been posted like 12 hours ago instead of just now.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Synergy's chick and kim kardashin (sp?) wins IMHO. But only a couple of them are 6 and below :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lmao rex man. Dat 2nd one u posted is def not a 7... more like a 2 or 3 real talk...

N darth 1st one was a 5. I 've seen a lot of 5s n 6s in here. Only 7s n 8s I saw was kim of course, n synergys one...

I'll post sum lata on since im at work now n on da sidekick but how bout we post pics of da girls dat we have or r tryin to get if u have da pics or show us ur exs so we can really see every1 taste Ya Dig
 

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No woman you haven't slept with is an HB 10. That last point to half-point is earned on performance. Having a GF that's an HB 9 who's a "lick-it-around-the-edges" girl with sex hang ups is like owning a Ferrari with a VW engine in it. Looks good, but not worth driving.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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