"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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the pain of regret vs the pain of rejection

vagrant

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I was going inside of bestbuy when I saw this beautiful girl standing next to the door talking on her cellphone, waiting for a ride to get home. I could tell this because she had her bestbuy blue shirt and the store was about to close.

Anyhow, I came out of the store, got what I came for and I was surprised to see that she was still there standing by the door. This time she wasn't on the phone.

I knew if it was perfect opportunity but I did not approach. I could tell too that she wanted me to apprach but I didn't.

I'm sure this happens a lot of times with guys and man, let me tell you, regret is more painful than rejection.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I just had tears in my eyes man.hahaha, nah seriously though.

I was in my car when I created this thread and she was still standing by the door when I finished.

I said, man fvck it. I knew it wasn't gonna be pretty but I went for it.

I started my car, rolled my window down, drove up next to her and I said, hey you got a ride? Something like that..I got nervous thinking about the approach..she smiled and said yes and I left feeling high.

I remember about the thread where guys rarely approach. Well, guess what, ill be one of the guys who does starting now.
 

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vagrant said:
I just had tears in my eyes man.hahaha, nah seriously though.

I was in my car when I created this thread and she was still standing by the door when I finished.

I said, man fvck it. I knew it wasn't gonna be pretty but I went for it.

I started my car, rolled my window down, drove up next to her and I said, hey you got a ride? Something like that..I got nervous thinking about the approach..she smiled and said yes and I left feeling high.

I remember about the thread where guys rarely approach. Well, guess what, ill be one of the guys who does starting now.
Idk man a girl rejected me a couple days ago when I asked her for her #, (albeit it was was in high school, in front of her friends...I felt like a dumbass for a couple seconds cuz i WASNT expecting a no...but it wore off I suppose)


Regret to me is just....it pisses me off but I'm not like SH!T I SHOULD HAVE FVCKING APPROACHED HER...I'm now gonna hate myself for a couple hours...or w/e. Cuz usually I approach, even if its to say somehting stupid I approach the girl, and that progresses my social skillilliziz. Feel me man?


But dude. I love your thread! Best Buy is like my favorite store, and theres always biddies working there.
 
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