"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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the pain of regret vs the pain of rejection

vagrant

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I was going inside of bestbuy when I saw this beautiful girl standing next to the door talking on her cellphone, waiting for a ride to get home. I could tell this because she had her bestbuy blue shirt and the store was about to close.

Anyhow, I came out of the store, got what I came for and I was surprised to see that she was still there standing by the door. This time she wasn't on the phone.

I knew if it was perfect opportunity but I did not approach. I could tell too that she wanted me to apprach but I didn't.

I'm sure this happens a lot of times with guys and man, let me tell you, regret is more painful than rejection.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I just had tears in my eyes man.hahaha, nah seriously though.

I was in my car when I created this thread and she was still standing by the door when I finished.

I said, man fvck it. I knew it wasn't gonna be pretty but I went for it.

I started my car, rolled my window down, drove up next to her and I said, hey you got a ride? Something like that..I got nervous thinking about the approach..she smiled and said yes and I left feeling high.

I remember about the thread where guys rarely approach. Well, guess what, ill be one of the guys who does starting now.
 

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vagrant said:
I just had tears in my eyes man.hahaha, nah seriously though.

I was in my car when I created this thread and she was still standing by the door when I finished.

I said, man fvck it. I knew it wasn't gonna be pretty but I went for it.

I started my car, rolled my window down, drove up next to her and I said, hey you got a ride? Something like that..I got nervous thinking about the approach..she smiled and said yes and I left feeling high.

I remember about the thread where guys rarely approach. Well, guess what, ill be one of the guys who does starting now.
Idk man a girl rejected me a couple days ago when I asked her for her #, (albeit it was was in high school, in front of her friends...I felt like a dumbass for a couple seconds cuz i WASNT expecting a no...but it wore off I suppose)


Regret to me is just....it pisses me off but I'm not like SH!T I SHOULD HAVE FVCKING APPROACHED HER...I'm now gonna hate myself for a couple hours...or w/e. Cuz usually I approach, even if its to say somehting stupid I approach the girl, and that progresses my social skillilliziz. Feel me man?


But dude. I love your thread! Best Buy is like my favorite store, and theres always biddies working there.
 
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