"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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the pain of regret vs the pain of rejection

vagrant

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I was going inside of bestbuy when I saw this beautiful girl standing next to the door talking on her cellphone, waiting for a ride to get home. I could tell this because she had her bestbuy blue shirt and the store was about to close.

Anyhow, I came out of the store, got what I came for and I was surprised to see that she was still there standing by the door. This time she wasn't on the phone.

I knew if it was perfect opportunity but I did not approach. I could tell too that she wanted me to apprach but I didn't.

I'm sure this happens a lot of times with guys and man, let me tell you, regret is more painful than rejection.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I just had tears in my eyes man.hahaha, nah seriously though.

I was in my car when I created this thread and she was still standing by the door when I finished.

I said, man fvck it. I knew it wasn't gonna be pretty but I went for it.

I started my car, rolled my window down, drove up next to her and I said, hey you got a ride? Something like that..I got nervous thinking about the approach..she smiled and said yes and I left feeling high.

I remember about the thread where guys rarely approach. Well, guess what, ill be one of the guys who does starting now.
 

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vagrant said:
I just had tears in my eyes man.hahaha, nah seriously though.

I was in my car when I created this thread and she was still standing by the door when I finished.

I said, man fvck it. I knew it wasn't gonna be pretty but I went for it.

I started my car, rolled my window down, drove up next to her and I said, hey you got a ride? Something like that..I got nervous thinking about the approach..she smiled and said yes and I left feeling high.

I remember about the thread where guys rarely approach. Well, guess what, ill be one of the guys who does starting now.
Idk man a girl rejected me a couple days ago when I asked her for her #, (albeit it was was in high school, in front of her friends...I felt like a dumbass for a couple seconds cuz i WASNT expecting a no...but it wore off I suppose)


Regret to me is just....it pisses me off but I'm not like SH!T I SHOULD HAVE FVCKING APPROACHED HER...I'm now gonna hate myself for a couple hours...or w/e. Cuz usually I approach, even if its to say somehting stupid I approach the girl, and that progresses my social skillilliziz. Feel me man?


But dude. I love your thread! Best Buy is like my favorite store, and theres always biddies working there.
 
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