"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

the pain of regret vs the pain of rejection

V

vagrant

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 19, 2006
Messages
587
Reaction score
8
I was going inside of bestbuy when I saw this beautiful girl standing next to the door talking on her cellphone, waiting for a ride to get home. I could tell this because she had her bestbuy blue shirt and the store was about to close.

Anyhow, I came out of the store, got what I came for and I was surprised to see that she was still there standing by the door. This time she wasn't on the phone.

I knew if it was perfect opportunity but I did not approach. I could tell too that she wanted me to apprach but I didn't.

I'm sure this happens a lot of times with guys and man, let me tell you, regret is more painful than rejection.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

V

vagrant

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 19, 2006
Messages
587
Reaction score
8
I just had tears in my eyes man.hahaha, nah seriously though.

I was in my car when I created this thread and she was still standing by the door when I finished.

I said, man fvck it. I knew it wasn't gonna be pretty but I went for it.

I started my car, rolled my window down, drove up next to her and I said, hey you got a ride? Something like that..I got nervous thinking about the approach..she smiled and said yes and I left feeling high.

I remember about the thread where guys rarely approach. Well, guess what, ill be one of the guys who does starting now.
 
B

Black Dog

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 26, 2010
Messages
222
Reaction score
7
Age
43
vagrant said:
I just had tears in my eyes man.hahaha, nah seriously though.

I was in my car when I created this thread and she was still standing by the door when I finished.

I said, man fvck it. I knew it wasn't gonna be pretty but I went for it.

I started my car, rolled my window down, drove up next to her and I said, hey you got a ride? Something like that..I got nervous thinking about the approach..she smiled and said yes and I left feeling high.

I remember about the thread where guys rarely approach. Well, guess what, ill be one of the guys who does starting now.
Click to expand...
Idk man a girl rejected me a couple days ago when I asked her for her #, (albeit it was was in high school, in front of her friends...I felt like a dumbass for a couple seconds cuz i WASNT expecting a no...but it wore off I suppose)


Regret to me is just....it pisses me off but I'm not like SH!T I SHOULD HAVE FVCKING APPROACHED HER...I'm now gonna hate myself for a couple hours...or w/e. Cuz usually I approach, even if its to say somehting stupid I approach the girl, and that progresses my social skillilliziz. Feel me man?


But dude. I love your thread! Best Buy is like my favorite store, and theres always biddies working there.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top