I got some
reason to complain, but let's face it, a Sparta warrior handles adversity.
It's a problem of affect/emotions. An alpha doesn't whine, he's unthreatened by anything.
Still, many men have problem with it. I don't act out, I'm in control -- I instead implode.
I'm in that sense a useless concrete block. But could be worse.
Problem is what the hell to do with that energy inside (pain etc.), or go smoking like @kavi
. A balloon doesn't loose its pressure by squeezing it or letting it be. On the other hand, it got infinite air, so it never stops if one goes crying or whining or whatever.
I think it's some kind of middle ground. Slowly mold the affect into some malleable, dynamic control.