"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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the origional djb

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Hello.

Well for starters, I'm 25 and I've always had a hard time with women. I wanted to dig deep into the problem, and I have realized that it's me. I simply can't generate interest in them. I even had a situation where I would be in a club with some friends, and they would try and hook me up. It would never work. Even a girl-friend of mine, she would come to me and say, " hey that woman over there wants to talk to you. So say something to here" I would choke up and end up missing yet another opportunity just to talk to them. Now I love women, but obiously there is something wrong and it's up to me to make it right.


Now to the subject at hand. Does any of you have the origional djf bible? I tried a search and followed the links, but they seem to be outdated. I keep getting proxy errors all over the place. I remember there being one pdf bible with some guy on the cover. I can't find it. if any of you guys were to have it, could you upload it w/ the link?

Thanks, I really do look foward to turning my situation around and joining the ranks as a future DJ.

thanks again
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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IMO, the DJ bootcamp has all the info one needs to get things going.
 

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the links didn't really work for me. i'll try them again.
 

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download the .pdf version of the bootcamp

most of the forum stuff is crap, the bible is full of conflicting advice and dead links, but I've had good luck with advice in the bootcamp pdf
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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rocky_mtn said:
download the .pdf version of the bootcamp

most of the forum stuff is crap, the bible is full of conflicting advice and dead links, but I've had good luck with advice in the bootcamp pdf
Where can i find this?
 
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