"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hello.

Well for starters, I'm 25 and I've always had a hard time with women. I wanted to dig deep into the problem, and I have realized that it's me. I simply can't generate interest in them. I even had a situation where I would be in a club with some friends, and they would try and hook me up. It would never work. Even a girl-friend of mine, she would come to me and say, " hey that woman over there wants to talk to you. So say something to here" I would choke up and end up missing yet another opportunity just to talk to them. Now I love women, but obiously there is something wrong and it's up to me to make it right.


Now to the subject at hand. Does any of you have the origional djf bible? I tried a search and followed the links, but they seem to be outdated. I keep getting proxy errors all over the place. I remember there being one pdf bible with some guy on the cover. I can't find it. if any of you guys were to have it, could you upload it w/ the link?

Thanks, I really do look foward to turning my situation around and joining the ranks as a future DJ.

thanks again
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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IMO, the DJ bootcamp has all the info one needs to get things going.
 
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the links didn't really work for me. i'll try them again.
 
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download the .pdf version of the bootcamp

most of the forum stuff is crap, the bible is full of conflicting advice and dead links, but I've had good luck with advice in the bootcamp pdf
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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rocky_mtn said:
download the .pdf version of the bootcamp

most of the forum stuff is crap, the bible is full of conflicting advice and dead links, but I've had good luck with advice in the bootcamp pdf
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Where can i find this?
 
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