"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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the origional djb

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Hello.

Well for starters, I'm 25 and I've always had a hard time with women. I wanted to dig deep into the problem, and I have realized that it's me. I simply can't generate interest in them. I even had a situation where I would be in a club with some friends, and they would try and hook me up. It would never work. Even a girl-friend of mine, she would come to me and say, " hey that woman over there wants to talk to you. So say something to here" I would choke up and end up missing yet another opportunity just to talk to them. Now I love women, but obiously there is something wrong and it's up to me to make it right.


Now to the subject at hand. Does any of you have the origional djf bible? I tried a search and followed the links, but they seem to be outdated. I keep getting proxy errors all over the place. I remember there being one pdf bible with some guy on the cover. I can't find it. if any of you guys were to have it, could you upload it w/ the link?

Thanks, I really do look foward to turning my situation around and joining the ranks as a future DJ.

thanks again
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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IMO, the DJ bootcamp has all the info one needs to get things going.
 

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the links didn't really work for me. i'll try them again.
 

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download the .pdf version of the bootcamp

most of the forum stuff is crap, the bible is full of conflicting advice and dead links, but I've had good luck with advice in the bootcamp pdf
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rocky_mtn said:
download the .pdf version of the bootcamp

most of the forum stuff is crap, the bible is full of conflicting advice and dead links, but I've had good luck with advice in the bootcamp pdf
Where can i find this?
 
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