"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hello.

Well for starters, I'm 25 and I've always had a hard time with women. I wanted to dig deep into the problem, and I have realized that it's me. I simply can't generate interest in them. I even had a situation where I would be in a club with some friends, and they would try and hook me up. It would never work. Even a girl-friend of mine, she would come to me and say, " hey that woman over there wants to talk to you. So say something to here" I would choke up and end up missing yet another opportunity just to talk to them. Now I love women, but obiously there is something wrong and it's up to me to make it right.


Now to the subject at hand. Does any of you have the origional djf bible? I tried a search and followed the links, but they seem to be outdated. I keep getting proxy errors all over the place. I remember there being one pdf bible with some guy on the cover. I can't find it. if any of you guys were to have it, could you upload it w/ the link?

Thanks, I really do look foward to turning my situation around and joining the ranks as a future DJ.

thanks again
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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IMO, the DJ bootcamp has all the info one needs to get things going.
 
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the links didn't really work for me. i'll try them again.
 
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download the .pdf version of the bootcamp

most of the forum stuff is crap, the bible is full of conflicting advice and dead links, but I've had good luck with advice in the bootcamp pdf
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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rocky_mtn said:
download the .pdf version of the bootcamp

most of the forum stuff is crap, the bible is full of conflicting advice and dead links, but I've had good luck with advice in the bootcamp pdf
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Where can i find this?
 
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