"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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the origional djb

100% ME

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Hello.

Well for starters, I'm 25 and I've always had a hard time with women. I wanted to dig deep into the problem, and I have realized that it's me. I simply can't generate interest in them. I even had a situation where I would be in a club with some friends, and they would try and hook me up. It would never work. Even a girl-friend of mine, she would come to me and say, " hey that woman over there wants to talk to you. So say something to here" I would choke up and end up missing yet another opportunity just to talk to them. Now I love women, but obiously there is something wrong and it's up to me to make it right.


Now to the subject at hand. Does any of you have the origional djf bible? I tried a search and followed the links, but they seem to be outdated. I keep getting proxy errors all over the place. I remember there being one pdf bible with some guy on the cover. I can't find it. if any of you guys were to have it, could you upload it w/ the link?

Thanks, I really do look foward to turning my situation around and joining the ranks as a future DJ.

thanks again
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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IMO, the DJ bootcamp has all the info one needs to get things going.
 

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the links didn't really work for me. i'll try them again.
 

rocky_mtn

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download the .pdf version of the bootcamp

most of the forum stuff is crap, the bible is full of conflicting advice and dead links, but I've had good luck with advice in the bootcamp pdf
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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rocky_mtn said:
download the .pdf version of the bootcamp

most of the forum stuff is crap, the bible is full of conflicting advice and dead links, but I've had good luck with advice in the bootcamp pdf
Where can i find this?
 
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