“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The one thing that makes a man understand if a woman is attracted to him

tesla8520

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This is a serious post.
I know that you guys will say things like conformity, respect/admiration, willing to jump on sex, invite him to do sex.
But, beside all of that, there is a "passive" sign too.

From my own experience, one key thing, is when she is looking at you in your eyes, her pupils get dilated.
If her pupils are not get dilated, then you're being used.
Yes, you may get sex, you may get a relationship, but this is just my mileage.

If a woman is genuinely in need of a man presence, her pupils will get dilated when looking him in his eyes.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've never especially noticed the pupils thing, but yes, it's definitely all in the eyes. She just looks at you a certain way. Many of my pulls were because a girl would give me that 'look' before i'd even spoken to her, so I knew to approach her and that my odds would be very very good
 

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I was never able to discern the truth of that pupil phenomenon. I think I’ve seen both dilated and contracted in women who were attracted to me. However as @characternote says, it’s still all in the eyes. They tell you everything.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BaronOfHair

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@tesla8520 "If a woman is genuinely in need of a man presence, her pupils will get dilated when looking him in his eyes"

That, or she

-Received stilleto in her back and through her heart, by a modern day descendant of The Hashishans

-Returned home from that backpacking trip in rural Guatemala with intestines overpopulated with tapeworms, one of which is now slithering out the backdoor, and down her leg

-Is 3 decades older than her appearance indicates, is now having a massive coronary
 

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If she has her hands tight round your throat,its a good sign she`s very angry at you
 

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You don't need to look that much in detail to see pupils. You just get "the look". PUAs used to call it the "doggy dinner bowl" look.

Aside from this, they might get touchy or giggly.
 

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Her pupil can get dilated from smoking vape, or looking at bright light and then at dark. Real sign is compliance.


You don't need to look that much in detail to see pupils. You just get "the look". PUAs used to call it the "doggy dinner bowl" look.
That's another thing. People can tell things without ever muttering a single word. It's not just this look, and also anything out of ordinary women usually do. It communicates certain things.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tesla8520

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I simply put my finger between her thighs. If she's moist, she's attracted. If she hits me, I should have left earlier. ;-)
I was with a BPD and she always had that moist
PUAs used to call it the "doggy dinner bowl" look.
Ok, I separate the two things.
This is the look you get when she want sex.
Then, there is the look she give to you when you both talk.
But yes.
Those are good example but I think you guys have better ones
 
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