"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The one thing that makes a man understand if a woman is attracted to him

tesla8520

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This is a serious post.
I know that you guys will say things like conformity, respect/admiration, willing to jump on sex, invite him to do sex.
But, beside all of that, there is a "passive" sign too.

From my own experience, one key thing, is when she is looking at you in your eyes, her pupils get dilated.
If her pupils are not get dilated, then you're being used.
Yes, you may get sex, you may get a relationship, but this is just my mileage.

If a woman is genuinely in need of a man presence, her pupils will get dilated when looking him in his eyes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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characternote

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I've never especially noticed the pupils thing, but yes, it's definitely all in the eyes. She just looks at you a certain way. Many of my pulls were because a girl would give me that 'look' before i'd even spoken to her, so I knew to approach her and that my odds would be very very good
 

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I was never able to discern the truth of that pupil phenomenon. I think I’ve seen both dilated and contracted in women who were attracted to me. However as @characternote says, it’s still all in the eyes. They tell you everything.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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BaronOfHair

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@tesla8520 "If a woman is genuinely in need of a man presence, her pupils will get dilated when looking him in his eyes"

That, or she

-Received stilleto in her back and through her heart, by a modern day descendant of The Hashishans

-Returned home from that backpacking trip in rural Guatemala with intestines overpopulated with tapeworms, one of which is now slithering out the backdoor, and down her leg

-Is 3 decades older than her appearance indicates, is now having a massive coronary
 

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If she has her hands tight round your throat,its a good sign she`s very angry at you
 

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You don't need to look that much in detail to see pupils. You just get "the look". PUAs used to call it the "doggy dinner bowl" look.

Aside from this, they might get touchy or giggly.
 

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Her pupil can get dilated from smoking vape, or looking at bright light and then at dark. Real sign is compliance.


You don't need to look that much in detail to see pupils. You just get "the look". PUAs used to call it the "doggy dinner bowl" look.
That's another thing. People can tell things without ever muttering a single word. It's not just this look, and also anything out of ordinary women usually do. It communicates certain things.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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