The one thing that makes a man understand if a woman is attracted to him

[tesla8520]

This is a serious post.
I know that you guys will say things like conformity, respect/admiration, willing to jump on sex, invite him to do sex.
But, beside all of that, there is a "passive" sign too.

From my own experience, one key thing, is when she is looking at you in your eyes, her pupils get dilated.
If her pupils are not get dilated, then you're being used.
Yes, you may get sex, you may get a relationship, but this is just my mileage.

If a woman is genuinely in need of a man presence, her pupils will get dilated when looking him in his eyes.

 

[characternote]

I've never especially noticed the pupils thing, but yes, it's definitely all in the eyes. She just looks at you a certain way. Many of my pulls were because a girl would give me that 'look' before i'd even spoken to her, so I knew to approach her and that my odds would be very very good

 

[Atom Smasher]

I was never able to discern the truth of that pupil phenomenon. I think I’ve seen both dilated and contracted in women who were attracted to me. However as @characternote says, it’s still all in the eyes. They tell you everything.

 

[The Duke]

I simply put my finger between her thighs. If she's moist, she's attracted. If she hits me, I should have left earlier. ;-)

 

[Atom Smasher]

I simply put my finger between her thighs. If she's moist, she's attracted. If she hits me, I should have left earlier. ;-)

Fair point. I guess it’s not ALL in the eyes!

 

[BaronOfHair]

@tesla8520 "If a woman is genuinely in need of a man presence, her pupils will get dilated when looking him in his eyes"

That, or she

-Received stilleto in her back and through her heart, by a modern day descendant of The Hashishans

-Returned home from that backpacking trip in rural Guatemala with intestines overpopulated with tapeworms, one of which is now slithering out the backdoor, and down her leg

-Is 3 decades older than her appearance indicates, is now having a massive coronary

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Or she might secretly have a butt plug in and it's hitting just the right spot with how she is standing....

 

[Jor-El]

If she has her hands tight round your throat,its a good sign she`s very angry at you

 

[quodlibet]

You don't need to look that much in detail to see pupils. You just get "the look". PUAs used to call it the "doggy dinner bowl" look.

Aside from this, they might get touchy or giggly.