“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dj Tiesto

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For me, nothing beats trance music.

Tunes I stick to:

Anything from Robert Miles Dreamland album. Especially: "Children and "Fable" will always pump my iron.

Of course, not to forget: Dj Tiesto :)
Magik 1-6, Nyana, In Search of Sunrise... Anything by Tiesto is good.

Try d/l his tune called "traffic" and see if u like it. My recent favorite!

So yeah, trance is the $hit.
The beats are perfect for working out and just for experiencing pure euphoria.
:cool:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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localboy_fmx

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Some other good metal bands are :

In Flames
From Autumn to Ashes
Avenged Sevenfold
Chimaira
Killswitch Engage
Nile
Atreyu
Anthrax
Soil
 

Walden

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Originally posted by Julian
I try to listen to rap which is my usual preference of music but it jsut doesnt work.

So i usually end up blasting my dads 80's metal... iron maiden, dio etc lol .
Oh that makes me feel old.
 

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Music You Listen to While Working out

list them guys
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Crystal Method, Chemical Brothers, stuff like that.

Oh and Ministry. \m/
 

MindOverMatter

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beach boys, abba, and bee gees.

haha just kidding. i don't listen to anything. im too poor to waste cash on an mp3 player, and my cd player is ghetto as hell (panasonic anti-shock, dates back to 1995), and it's so old that it skips all the time even on clean cds.

so i just listen to whatever they play at the gym. and since my gym is heavily populated with HBs, they tend to play a lot of R&B/pop unfortunately (doing squats while listening to hilary duff is my personal hell by the way) . ah well, it's the price you have to pay for being in spandex sl*t heaven.

edit - every once in a while tho, when my buddy works at the desk, he'll play some AC/DC, Metallica, Rollins n sh!t, and I'll have some of the best workouts possible lol.
 

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
Basic heavy/power metal does it for me. Judas Priest are a favourite.
Nice, I usually play that type of stuff or Death or Thrash Metal when working out. Works very well.
 

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Judas Priest? Damn, I have to add that to my rotation of songs.

Disturbed,Alice Cooper,Breaking Benjamin,Marylin Manson,Nine Inch Nails,Rob Zombie and I have to add Matthew Good Band. :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Moving_Target

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Boo, Eye of the Tiger?
I'll meet your "Eye of the Tiger" by Survivor and raise you a "Welcome to the Fold" by Filter.
 

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these days i listen to "all i got" by Hush...simply too good...dunnno if its released in the market...its there on the net though.

if any of ya'll wondering which track this is....well, in case you saw the finale of "The Contender"...its the song performed by that same guy just before the final fight at Caesers palace.
 

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here is a list of work out music
my favorite is anything by the offspring especially their old cd smash.
the metallica s&m cd or and justice for all...
dude ranch by blink 182
i cant get into any rap or r&b,sorry it just doesnt make me want to lift.
any thrice cd.
the toxicty cd by system of a down
 

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I have a Lil Jon mix that always does the trick.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
ah well, it's the price you have to pay for being in spandex sl*t heaven.
possibly the best line i've read at sosuave.
 

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I just got a small mp3 player and i like listening to techno/dance music while working out. It helps me go a bit harder during the workout.
 

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I like to do the Tool when I'm working out....can't really go wrong

Either Aenima or Lateralus will get put in and depending on the mood I usually tend to listen to the Salival disc (A live CD the band pulled from the shelves for whatever reason).....If lifted damn near impossibleweight listening to 'Pu$hit' off of salival....that song kicks ass.

Blink is right....I like rap but it doesn't get me in lifting mood
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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