"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The official old man rant thread!

dustmuffin

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Why are young guys such pussies? Why can't they get off their ass and ask a girl out? Might get their feelers hurt? Do it you gd *****! Get up walk over and as her out! Does your ***** chaf as you walk over? Well get some damn vagisil and do it! You stupid fuc Ker's coming on here all the time asking if a girl likes you! Dumb ass! It dosent mater! You will never know unless you ask! Now get off my lawn and get you wussy ass over there!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dustmuffin

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Why are old guys always b!tchin about young guys? Maybe if you spent as much time focusing on yourself instead of griping you'd get somewhere.

Don't you have a thread or two right now on the first page asking for advice? Ironic.
You are not one of the young guys that need advice....You take action......I can benefit from your knowledge. I was in a mood last night. I have gotten somewhere I just have a way to go. I do know if you want a date to take action, ask her out or for her number. It is simple.
 

dustmuffin

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It's easy to get (and stay) annoyed.

It's a lot more fun though to be amused.

Jus' sayin'.....
You are correct. I am working on that state of mind. I have taken steps to fix my mental short comings. I know what my issues are and I am taking action.
 

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I took action....been flirting with a nurse at the testosterone clinic and got her number.....She even fetches me drinks....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So I guess now that I'm in my late thirties I'm old right? ;)

Well here goes one...why do i have to lie about my age when younger women think I'm in my late twenties? If i go along with her assumption then i have to commit to a lie...if i let them know the truth then the age discrepancy is too much for them to handle then im old...go figure. :mad:
 

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So I guess now that I'm in my late thirties I'm old right? ;)

Well here goes one...why do i have to lie about my age when younger women think I'm in my late twenties? If i go along with her assumption then i have to commit to a lie...if i let them know the truth then the age discrepancy is too much for them to handle then im old...go figure. :mad:
I am going to redo my old profile after I get in shape and I'm going to lie about my age. Most people think I'm low mid 40s.

Thoughts?
 

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Hey, to each their own about honesty...BUT, if you look, feel and have constantly women validating that you do look younger then do what's best for you. To be blunt, It all comes down to doing what's best for you in this "game."
 

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Hey, to each their own about honesty...BUT, if you look, feel and have constantly women validating that you do look younger then do what's best for you. To be blunt, It all comes down to doing what's best for you in this "game."
I'm thinking I might get younger bites. I have been getting 35 plus though
 
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