"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

The official old man rant thread!

dustmuffin

dustmuffin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 21, 2015
Messages
2,495
Reaction score
1,423
Age
63
Why are young guys such pussies? Why can't they get off their ass and ask a girl out? Might get their feelers hurt? Do it you gd *****! Get up walk over and as her out! Does your ***** chaf as you walk over? Well get some damn vagisil and do it! You stupid fuc Ker's coming on here all the time asking if a girl likes you! Dumb ass! It dosent mater! You will never know unless you ask! Now get off my lawn and get you wussy ass over there!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

dustmuffin

dustmuffin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 21, 2015
Messages
2,495
Reaction score
1,423
Age
63
Ruler said:
Why are old guys always b!tchin about young guys? Maybe if you spent as much time focusing on yourself instead of griping you'd get somewhere.

Don't you have a thread or two right now on the first page asking for advice? Ironic.
Click to expand...
You are not one of the young guys that need advice....You take action......I can benefit from your knowledge. I was in a mood last night. I have gotten somewhere I just have a way to go. I do know if you want a date to take action, ask her out or for her number. It is simple.
 
dustmuffin

dustmuffin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 21, 2015
Messages
2,495
Reaction score
1,423
Age
63
Tictac said:
It's easy to get (and stay) annoyed.

It's a lot more fun though to be amused.

Jus' sayin'.....
Click to expand...
You are correct. I am working on that state of mind. I have taken steps to fix my mental short comings. I know what my issues are and I am taking action.
 
dustmuffin

dustmuffin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 21, 2015
Messages
2,495
Reaction score
1,423
Age
63
I took action....been flirting with a nurse at the testosterone clinic and got her number.....She even fetches me drinks....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

K

KingBeef

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2001
Messages
803
Reaction score
116
Location
Queens, New York
So I guess now that I'm in my late thirties I'm old right? ;)

Well here goes one...why do i have to lie about my age when younger women think I'm in my late twenties? If i go along with her assumption then i have to commit to a lie...if i let them know the truth then the age discrepancy is too much for them to handle then im old...go figure. :mad:
 
dustmuffin

dustmuffin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 21, 2015
Messages
2,495
Reaction score
1,423
Age
63
KingBeef said:
So I guess now that I'm in my late thirties I'm old right? ;)

Well here goes one...why do i have to lie about my age when younger women think I'm in my late twenties? If i go along with her assumption then i have to commit to a lie...if i let them know the truth then the age discrepancy is too much for them to handle then im old...go figure. :mad:
Click to expand...
I am going to redo my old profile after I get in shape and I'm going to lie about my age. Most people think I'm low mid 40s.

Thoughts?
 
K

KingBeef

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2001
Messages
803
Reaction score
116
Location
Queens, New York
Hey, to each their own about honesty...BUT, if you look, feel and have constantly women validating that you do look younger then do what's best for you. To be blunt, It all comes down to doing what's best for you in this "game."
 
dustmuffin

dustmuffin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 21, 2015
Messages
2,495
Reaction score
1,423
Age
63
KingBeef said:
Hey, to each their own about honesty...BUT, if you look, feel and have constantly women validating that you do look younger then do what's best for you. To be blunt, It all comes down to doing what's best for you in this "game."
Click to expand...
I'm thinking I might get younger bites. I have been getting 35 plus though
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top