"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The official old man rant thread!

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Why are young guys such pussies? Why can't they get off their ass and ask a girl out? Might get their feelers hurt? Do it you gd *****! Get up walk over and as her out! Does your ***** chaf as you walk over? Well get some damn vagisil and do it! You stupid fuc Ker's coming on here all the time asking if a girl likes you! Dumb ass! It dosent mater! You will never know unless you ask! Now get off my lawn and get you wussy ass over there!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ruler said:
Why are old guys always b!tchin about young guys? Maybe if you spent as much time focusing on yourself instead of griping you'd get somewhere.

Don't you have a thread or two right now on the first page asking for advice? Ironic.
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You are not one of the young guys that need advice....You take action......I can benefit from your knowledge. I was in a mood last night. I have gotten somewhere I just have a way to go. I do know if you want a date to take action, ask her out or for her number. It is simple.
 
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Tictac said:
It's easy to get (and stay) annoyed.

It's a lot more fun though to be amused.

Jus' sayin'.....
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You are correct. I am working on that state of mind. I have taken steps to fix my mental short comings. I know what my issues are and I am taking action.
 
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I took action....been flirting with a nurse at the testosterone clinic and got her number.....She even fetches me drinks....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So I guess now that I'm in my late thirties I'm old right? ;)

Well here goes one...why do i have to lie about my age when younger women think I'm in my late twenties? If i go along with her assumption then i have to commit to a lie...if i let them know the truth then the age discrepancy is too much for them to handle then im old...go figure. :mad:
 
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KingBeef said:
So I guess now that I'm in my late thirties I'm old right? ;)

Well here goes one...why do i have to lie about my age when younger women think I'm in my late twenties? If i go along with her assumption then i have to commit to a lie...if i let them know the truth then the age discrepancy is too much for them to handle then im old...go figure. :mad:
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I am going to redo my old profile after I get in shape and I'm going to lie about my age. Most people think I'm low mid 40s.

Thoughts?
 
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Hey, to each their own about honesty...BUT, if you look, feel and have constantly women validating that you do look younger then do what's best for you. To be blunt, It all comes down to doing what's best for you in this "game."
 
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KingBeef said:
Hey, to each their own about honesty...BUT, if you look, feel and have constantly women validating that you do look younger then do what's best for you. To be blunt, It all comes down to doing what's best for you in this "game."
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I'm thinking I might get younger bites. I have been getting 35 plus though
 
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