"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The official old man rant thread!

dustmuffin

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Why are young guys such pussies? Why can't they get off their ass and ask a girl out? Might get their feelers hurt? Do it you gd *****! Get up walk over and as her out! Does your ***** chaf as you walk over? Well get some damn vagisil and do it! You stupid fuc Ker's coming on here all the time asking if a girl likes you! Dumb ass! It dosent mater! You will never know unless you ask! Now get off my lawn and get you wussy ass over there!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dustmuffin

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Why are old guys always b!tchin about young guys? Maybe if you spent as much time focusing on yourself instead of griping you'd get somewhere.

Don't you have a thread or two right now on the first page asking for advice? Ironic.
You are not one of the young guys that need advice....You take action......I can benefit from your knowledge. I was in a mood last night. I have gotten somewhere I just have a way to go. I do know if you want a date to take action, ask her out or for her number. It is simple.
 

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It's easy to get (and stay) annoyed.

It's a lot more fun though to be amused.

Jus' sayin'.....
You are correct. I am working on that state of mind. I have taken steps to fix my mental short comings. I know what my issues are and I am taking action.
 

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I took action....been flirting with a nurse at the testosterone clinic and got her number.....She even fetches me drinks....
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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So I guess now that I'm in my late thirties I'm old right? ;)

Well here goes one...why do i have to lie about my age when younger women think I'm in my late twenties? If i go along with her assumption then i have to commit to a lie...if i let them know the truth then the age discrepancy is too much for them to handle then im old...go figure. :mad:
 

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So I guess now that I'm in my late thirties I'm old right? ;)

Well here goes one...why do i have to lie about my age when younger women think I'm in my late twenties? If i go along with her assumption then i have to commit to a lie...if i let them know the truth then the age discrepancy is too much for them to handle then im old...go figure. :mad:
I am going to redo my old profile after I get in shape and I'm going to lie about my age. Most people think I'm low mid 40s.

Thoughts?
 

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Hey, to each their own about honesty...BUT, if you look, feel and have constantly women validating that you do look younger then do what's best for you. To be blunt, It all comes down to doing what's best for you in this "game."
 

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Hey, to each their own about honesty...BUT, if you look, feel and have constantly women validating that you do look younger then do what's best for you. To be blunt, It all comes down to doing what's best for you in this "game."
I'm thinking I might get younger bites. I have been getting 35 plus though
 
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