You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No problem like i said, i have had this for too long!wolf116 said:ok, I believe you know what you are talking about now. thanks wery much for he cream recomendations and taking the time to type all this info up.![]()
Except that accutane is a really serious drug that you don't want to use except as a last resort. It can mess with your liver, leave your skin bone-dry for months, and permanently affect your night vision. Who knows what the really long term side effects are, too. Only use accutane as a last resort.mexican_player2 said:that, or just go to the dermatologyst and use accutane for 3-5 months and forget about acne in your whole life
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
there are a few ways:wolf116 said:I just made it, so I now have the Jojoba oil and BP wash(or should I get the gel?). I coulden't find the other cream on the shelves of the chemist, they were closing up so I dident ask.
With the jojoba oil, how do I use it? I was just going to put it on after every time I use BP and do I wash it off after?
wolf116 said:cheers, on my BP(the wash one not the creme) bottle it sais leave on for 30sec then rinse off. Do I just ignore that sh!t?
My diet has always been right.
What are your views on squeezing? I can't stop it. they itch like fvck for me and they look disgusting unsqueezed.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Ok man GL with it, keep me posted on your outcome and i will try to offer advice when i can.wolf116 said:thanks, I'm starting tonight! See how I go. I'll use my wash then get some creme. I'm also on homeopathics, I don't know if this hippie sh!t will do anything but it can't hurt. This will rewen my homeopathic experiment tho. Oh well
I can't order the other stuff because I don't have a credit card. Maybe I'll ask a doc about it.
I have a apointment with a dermatologist in two months if all else fails.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wolf116 said:Thats BS. Just because it works for you. I have had a perfect diet for two years.
Well the average Joe also gets FAT, eventually, or he has a pale, complexion due to all that gunk.DJinTraining06 said:Exactly i do too. We're missing the point here people. The average Joe in my high school and college had not a zit on his face and ate taco bell, burger king, and pizza, drank soda, and drank like a fish on the weekends.
We shouldn't have to eat super healthy to have clear skin. that obviously isn't the problem. I'm not sayin i know wat it is, maybe its just in our DNA and theres really nothin we can do until they find a cure (safer than accutane)
but it is def not food. Certain foods make me break out, sure they do. But i have tried healthy food for way too long, and im just not enjoying myself cuz im spending way too much timeand money on my skin. So i rather take accutane and live care free.
Just use it on the night no need to go OTT with it, it can give an oily look, so going to bed is cool, the look fades after about 30mins or so though.wolf116 said:Well I used the oil as a moisturizer at night and woke up with no more puss(unusual). But when I used it in the morning my skin looked all oily and shinny throughout the day. good results tho. Only 3 more puss bombs.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.