Solomon
Master Don Juan
Groovy read the first page and link I posted
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Hahahaha you trollbackbreaker said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I can't wait till I have a wet dream, haven't had one of those in yearsWho Dares Win said:I passed a 3 weeks no porno/masturbation then on 1 July I did it for maintance reasons twice then had a wet dream the following night.
Now Im 4 days clean and joining you, the plan is to stay clean forever given that Ill be getting release with girls, otherwise maintenance is planned on 20th.
Anyway trust what Solomon said, your mental abilities will increase esponentially so your physical ones, its not only a matter of hormones but mostly of neurotrasmitters like dopamine.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
To me it happens usually when I dont masturbate for more than a week/10 days without releasing with a girl, but it was common also when I was horny but didnt masturbate.Solomon said:I can't wait till I have a wet dream, haven't had one of those in years
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You know even if a submarine doesnt go to war, once in a while you have to launch some missile to no target just to keep the cannon clean and ready.Social_Leper said:Maintenance?
Crap, same here, day 11, got to do some exercise pronto. Are you still in?Dedication said:Had a rough night, still in it, day3. I'm just gonna hit the gym to exhaust myself. I don't want to stay needlessly awake again.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I believe that this is the feeling that most people are looking for: that zest for life that's difficult to explain to others.Groovy said:Screw that, I "gave up", I was forced to give up, I could NOT help it, I was so horny I had body pains, felt flushed, body fires, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, insomnia, ETC. I even did tai chi and took a hour long walk but I couldn't get rid of that, excessive YANG energy.
From my experience, excessive masterbation certainly isn't healthy, but then again prolonged abstinence has a similar effect on me. As I said earlier in this thread, there's a point that I reach where I begin to lose my sexual appetite (around the 2 week mark). If I get to that point I find it best to ejaculate and start over.Groovy said:Now I will abstain again for a while... I don't want to jack off too much and exhaust my body either. I hope I am doing the right thing for my health! How does it sound?
How are u guys doing?![]()
I recommend getting a wet dream before you fap again because that is the point were your body says 'its been enough' instead of your mind. Your mind will play tricks on you when you're not fapping, it will try to convince you in any way for you to touch yourself. I think this 2 week mark of yours, is a trick of the mind.TyTe`EyEz said:there's a point that I reach where I begin to lose my sexual appetite (around the 2 week mark). If I get to that point I find it best to ejaculate and start over.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.