"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The offical Sosuave no fap challenge (Let's get it!)

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hey guys. sorry but i'm already on day 7; my friend had suggested that i should take on this challenge a week ago. on day 4, i number closed a hb on the train, something i've never had the courage to do before. you can read about it here (it's approach #30)

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=185927&page=3

though it ended in a flake, i feel like i am making more progress
 

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I started at the beginning of this month, like others I am aiming to get through July. Day 5 so far.
 

Dedication

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I'm in! On day2 right now since i didn't fap yesterday ;)

Goal: No fap till August 19.

I've done this before, went as long as 2 months and i noticed that pretty much no social pressure had effect on me, i could express myself much easier. A bit too easy if i may say so myself. I'm not really able to handle the increase but hey its fun.

Its also interesting to note that in the early stages, at around the first week or two you will notice a heavy increase in drive the first few days kind of like a high point, a couple of days after that you will get lightly depressed you'll notice a low point. Quiting to fap is not all positive emotions, it comes in waves of ups and downs. Thats some material for when you guys notice it as well.

GL HF


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Hahahaha you troll
 

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Failed last night

:down:

suppose to have a chick come over and hang she didn't but another chick ended up......

day 1
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Seems interesting, I'll join the challenge.
Tonights gonna be the last night of sweet fapping time and then I'll try to stop it for a week.
After that, the goal will be 2, then 3, then 4, then forever.

Wish me luck!
 
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Who Dares Win

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I passed a 3 weeks no porno/masturbation then on 1 July I did it for maintance reasons twice then had a wet dream the following night.

Now Im 4 days clean and joining you, the plan is to stay clean forever given that Ill be getting release with girls, otherwise maintenance is planned on 20th.
Anyway trust what Solomon said, your mental abilities will increase esponentially so your physical ones, its not only a matter of hormones but mostly of neurotrasmitters like dopamine.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
I passed a 3 weeks no porno/masturbation then on 1 July I did it for maintance reasons twice then had a wet dream the following night.

Now Im 4 days clean and joining you, the plan is to stay clean forever given that Ill be getting release with girls, otherwise maintenance is planned on 20th.
Anyway trust what Solomon said, your mental abilities will increase esponentially so your physical ones, its not only a matter of hormones but mostly of neurotrasmitters like dopamine.
I can't wait till I have a wet dream, haven't had one of those in years

:cheer:
 

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It increases neurotransmitters, yes, I agree with that. also, hormones. This is health and fitness! Put this in health and fitness... you choir boys!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Solomon said:
I can't wait till I have a wet dream, haven't had one of those in years

:cheer:
To me it happens usually when I dont masturbate for more than a week/10 days without releasing with a girl, but it was common also when I was horny but didnt masturbate.
Actually I was surprised to get one the day after masturbation, probably the body wasnt used to all those hormones stored and overdid.






Social_Leper said:
Maintenance?
You know even if a submarine doesnt go to war, once in a while you have to launch some missile to no target just to keep the cannon clean and ready. :whistle:
 

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Since visiting this site: www.yourbrainonporn.com i've made an effort to quit masturbating and watching porn. So far my longest is only 2 weeks. I just put some website blockers in place which will hopefully help get me to my goal of 1 month. At 2 days right now so its a long road ahead.

Idk if i believe not fapping raises your testosterone, but theres definitely somehting to be said for its effect on dopamine and dopamine receptors. Hopin after a few weeks my libido will be sky high. However, my main issue seems to be that when I can't sleep I end up jerking off.
 

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Had a rough night, still in it, day3. I'm just gonna hit the gym to exhaust myself. I don't want to stay needlessly awake again.
 

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Dedication said:
Had a rough night, still in it, day3. I'm just gonna hit the gym to exhaust myself. I don't want to stay needlessly awake again.
Crap, same here, day 11, got to do some exercise pronto. Are you still in?
 

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Oh yeah i'm still in, its night 5 now. I've done it 2 times before to reach more then a month. It took me 3 years of trying to reach over 30 days.

I now that threads like these, where many people say they will do something usually end up with not even 10% coming through. I know that because i've lied about these kind challanges in the past and i gained the ability to detect people who failed. Guess that the saying is true 'it takes one to know one'.

I'm also assosiating this thread with masturbating, i find that its best to not ever think about it, for me that entails having something to do and staying away from the internet.

You're on day 11, how you feeling right now? I'm still resisting with effort.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well considering that I just had sex after a long day of splashing in the pool, should be easier to get through the next several days.

Day 5.

One week is easy. 2nd and 3rd week I find the most trouble resisting. Anything past that is smooth sailing.
 

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Screw that, I "gave up", I was forced to give up, I could NOT help it, I was so horny I had body pains, felt flushed, body fires, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, insomnia, ETC. I even did tai chi and took a hour long walk but I couldn't get rid of that, excessive YANG energy.
Now I will abstain again for a while... I don't want to jack off too much and exhaust my body either. I hope I am doing the right thing for my health! How does it sound?
How are u guys doing? :)

PS: I don't have SEX.
 
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Groovy said:
Screw that, I "gave up", I was forced to give up, I could NOT help it, I was so horny I had body pains, felt flushed, body fires, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, insomnia, ETC. I even did tai chi and took a hour long walk but I couldn't get rid of that, excessive YANG energy.
I believe that this is the feeling that most people are looking for: that zest for life that's difficult to explain to others.

Groovy said:
Now I will abstain again for a while... I don't want to jack off too much and exhaust my body either. I hope I am doing the right thing for my health! How does it sound?
How are u guys doing? :)
From my experience, excessive masterbation certainly isn't healthy, but then again prolonged abstinence has a similar effect on me. As I said earlier in this thread, there's a point that I reach where I begin to lose my sexual appetite (around the 2 week mark). If I get to that point I find it best to ejaculate and start over.
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
there's a point that I reach where I begin to lose my sexual appetite (around the 2 week mark). If I get to that point I find it best to ejaculate and start over.
I recommend getting a wet dream before you fap again because that is the point were your body says 'its been enough' instead of your mind. Your mind will play tricks on you when you're not fapping, it will try to convince you in any way for you to touch yourself. I think this 2 week mark of yours, is a trick of the mind.

I think i should elaborate on this, i don't mean the physical effect of losing your sexual appetite here, i mean that you think its best to ejaculate.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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