Solomon
Master Don Juan
Groovy read the first page and link I posted
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Hahahaha you trollbackbreaker said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I can't wait till I have a wet dream, haven't had one of those in yearsWho Dares Win said:I passed a 3 weeks no porno/masturbation then on 1 July I did it for maintance reasons twice then had a wet dream the following night.
Now Im 4 days clean and joining you, the plan is to stay clean forever given that Ill be getting release with girls, otherwise maintenance is planned on 20th.
Anyway trust what Solomon said, your mental abilities will increase esponentially so your physical ones, its not only a matter of hormones but mostly of neurotrasmitters like dopamine.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
To me it happens usually when I dont masturbate for more than a week/10 days without releasing with a girl, but it was common also when I was horny but didnt masturbate.Solomon said:I can't wait till I have a wet dream, haven't had one of those in years
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You know even if a submarine doesnt go to war, once in a while you have to launch some missile to no target just to keep the cannon clean and ready.Social_Leper said:Maintenance?
Crap, same here, day 11, got to do some exercise pronto. Are you still in?Dedication said:Had a rough night, still in it, day3. I'm just gonna hit the gym to exhaust myself. I don't want to stay needlessly awake again.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I believe that this is the feeling that most people are looking for: that zest for life that's difficult to explain to others.Groovy said:Screw that, I "gave up", I was forced to give up, I could NOT help it, I was so horny I had body pains, felt flushed, body fires, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, insomnia, ETC. I even did tai chi and took a hour long walk but I couldn't get rid of that, excessive YANG energy.
From my experience, excessive masterbation certainly isn't healthy, but then again prolonged abstinence has a similar effect on me. As I said earlier in this thread, there's a point that I reach where I begin to lose my sexual appetite (around the 2 week mark). If I get to that point I find it best to ejaculate and start over.Groovy said:Now I will abstain again for a while... I don't want to jack off too much and exhaust my body either. I hope I am doing the right thing for my health! How does it sound?
How are u guys doing?![]()
I recommend getting a wet dream before you fap again because that is the point were your body says 'its been enough' instead of your mind. Your mind will play tricks on you when you're not fapping, it will try to convince you in any way for you to touch yourself. I think this 2 week mark of yours, is a trick of the mind.TyTe`EyEz said:there's a point that I reach where I begin to lose my sexual appetite (around the 2 week mark). If I get to that point I find it best to ejaculate and start over.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.