Solomon
Master Don Juan
Groovy read the first page and link I posted
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hahahaha you trollbackbreaker said:
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I can't wait till I have a wet dream, haven't had one of those in yearsWho Dares Win said:I passed a 3 weeks no porno/masturbation then on 1 July I did it for maintance reasons twice then had a wet dream the following night.
Now Im 4 days clean and joining you, the plan is to stay clean forever given that Ill be getting release with girls, otherwise maintenance is planned on 20th.
Anyway trust what Solomon said, your mental abilities will increase esponentially so your physical ones, its not only a matter of hormones but mostly of neurotrasmitters like dopamine.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
To me it happens usually when I dont masturbate for more than a week/10 days without releasing with a girl, but it was common also when I was horny but didnt masturbate.Solomon said:I can't wait till I have a wet dream, haven't had one of those in years
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You know even if a submarine doesnt go to war, once in a while you have to launch some missile to no target just to keep the cannon clean and ready.Social_Leper said:Maintenance?
Crap, same here, day 11, got to do some exercise pronto. Are you still in?Dedication said:Had a rough night, still in it, day3. I'm just gonna hit the gym to exhaust myself. I don't want to stay needlessly awake again.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I believe that this is the feeling that most people are looking for: that zest for life that's difficult to explain to others.Groovy said:Screw that, I "gave up", I was forced to give up, I could NOT help it, I was so horny I had body pains, felt flushed, body fires, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, insomnia, ETC. I even did tai chi and took a hour long walk but I couldn't get rid of that, excessive YANG energy.
From my experience, excessive masterbation certainly isn't healthy, but then again prolonged abstinence has a similar effect on me. As I said earlier in this thread, there's a point that I reach where I begin to lose my sexual appetite (around the 2 week mark). If I get to that point I find it best to ejaculate and start over.Groovy said:Now I will abstain again for a while... I don't want to jack off too much and exhaust my body either. I hope I am doing the right thing for my health! How does it sound?
How are u guys doing?![]()
I recommend getting a wet dream before you fap again because that is the point were your body says 'its been enough' instead of your mind. Your mind will play tricks on you when you're not fapping, it will try to convince you in any way for you to touch yourself. I think this 2 week mark of yours, is a trick of the mind.TyTe`EyEz said:there's a point that I reach where I begin to lose my sexual appetite (around the 2 week mark). If I get to that point I find it best to ejaculate and start over.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.