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If this average guy is 30+ and having sex with a similarly aged woman, he's getting something out of it. He's getting sex, which has physical and psychological benefits. It is better than being an incel.
I could tell you but then I’d have to kill you.
She's not a hoe. She's a modern feminist.
I wanted to address this point because everyone missed something here. It does not matter if the guys are weak or dismissible, they are staying playing a major role in the rise of toxic behavior in women. Simps are weak and dismissible men but look at how they inflate the egos of women. The dudes in her DMs are largely dismissible men but they still inflate her ego. White Knights are weak men who are a waste of space on this earth but look at how big of a role they play in enabling toxic female behavior.
Only when you think you have to compete will you be in a competition.
I'm not saying that you are wrong but I find it difficult to relate as I find most "average" North American women not attractive enough to fvck.
I just see them as minor smoke screens and continue my day. Yes, you have certain types of women that are so insecure that their egos feed and breathe off of social media, but if it is not Instagram, it would be something else. From personal experience, I get DMed every day by women on Instagram and Tik Tok. I do not look at 99% of them because that's too much energy and it is pointless. So what a girl from Indiana wants to have sex with me..Why would I be willing to go through all of that to meet some complete stranger that could be potentially put me in danger?
You missed the point I was trying to make. All of these guys, on a large scale, are the main reason women have the bad attitudes and egos they do. WKs, Simps, and thirsty dudes in general. Women know they can get away with anything because these weak men, not even feminists themselves, are the biggest allies of women.
No, their attitudes are so bad because you obviously care about orbiters, you see them as your competition. You blame them for not getting between her legs. Because you're a potential orbiter, not a potential lover.
These types of women are simply for street use only then. Applying the 80/20 rule at minimum, the majority of women are either going to be considered street property. These women are pretty easy to spot and filter out IMHO. To be more clear, this is the type of woman that you use for a One Night Stand and call it night. Having sex with these women isn't a problem but dating (including plate spinning) them is.
Depends on what you consider average, I suppose. I sort of eliminate the fat girls right off the top. Basically what I mean is, unless a woman has something obviously wrong with her (like obesity), men are programmed to be attracted to them. I can usually find something attractive in a fairly plain looking girl. Either they have killer bodies or some quirky look that I find appealing. Maybe I appreciate female beauty more than most guys though. Most guys here seem to be mostly attracted to themselves lol.
I agree .Caller and his call are a great example of how gaslighting works. They treat him like a troll, because his call is messing their entire business model.
To be fair, in NYC more so than most other places
I have a few former classmates, women in their 40s, who I think likely could have several Sosuavers wrapped around their fingers and infected with oneitis.
To be fair she is petrifying.
I never once said they were competition.
You mean she makes you hard? Or just stiff?
Well, you're severely muddying the waters when you post angst-ridden statements like this:
You state that this men are your competition, that their validation and behaviour can be compared to what you have to offer a woman. If you are secure in your masculinity, you don't see wimps and simps as competing for a woman's attention.
