The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

[teapotinthejetstream@yaho]

Read your first sentence, then realized your username was literally a Ctrl+C and Ctrl+V of your ‘registered’ email account. But, why??

They say that it’s tough to graduate the DJ University, but hell, they have been uppin’ their graduation rates tremendously…

what does that mean

 

[Foe]

When Albanian showed up I sat with her, talked, bought drinks and homerun. Closed the deal.

Dude you handled this situation like an absolute boss. Well done. BTW completely ignore her BS "first time I've gone out", guaranteed she's been out plenty, she's just pissed you had a hottie and she had to sit on the side lines.

 

[Doctor Doom]

The point of No Contact is exactly as it states, no contact. Men try to use NC as a form of hoping to get the girl back. Wrong mindset. Block her and permanently move on. Permanently. No contact.

 

[Zontyy]

I'm back in the gym with a routine, a few woman at work have been dropping into my DMs. I've ignored them all though because I'm still in my custody battle and don't want to get distracted. I have full temporary custody of my son now. My EX picked up a DWI while doing over 100MPH on the highway, double over the legal limit with my son in car with his half sister. She now has felony charges, my son was removed and given custody to me because of the latest incident. Since then my EX has forged mortgage documents with the house we had together which might be a second felony police are investigating. During one of our custody exchanges (she is allowed 2 hours a week supervised) she stunned me with an electric stun gun and dropped off the radar since then. She was served papers to force the sale of the home we have together. We were supposed to have custody trial but her public defender asked to be removed as she was abusive and the trial is delayed for another 2-3 months.

I think I might be finally free of this woman, there were lots of bad times. Though I look back on memories and the wild sex and I wonder if I'll ever find a girl with that sex drive again. Wishful thinking says in the future could be a hookup when I'm lonely, I'm sure she would be down for a weekend of fun. Then reality hits and this woman straight tried to ruin me and probably will continue to try and ruin me. Best just to stay away.

 

[mikey2012]

Women get over breakups much easier than men because women begin the detachment process during the relationship. Generally, they begin "breaking up" with you in their minds months before the actual breakup occurrs. Men aren't wired like this. Men see the break-up conversation as the "end" and they are then recovering for the next number of months after that point. Women, however, would have gone through that process months before. It is why they can seem so cold in how easily they get over you. You are pouring out your heart to her while she has already moved on and begun fantasizing about her co-worker (or began banging them even).

Keep this in mind for your future LTRs. It will save you a load of grief if you can recognize this dynamic at play during the relationship and know it is time to begin protecting yourself so you aren't caught with your pants down.

I’m back after 10 years so let me summarize :

never get married
Never have kids
Never get emotionally involved
Never do anything for a woman. Make them do things for you
Focus on your own success.
Be comfortable alone

 

[Lotus Effect]

Here I am again.

new chick. Same old.

well, let’s go. Day one.

 

[mikey2012]

Here I am again.

new chick. Same old.

well, let’s go. Day one.

That’s because you are emotionally invested.

 

[mikey2012]

Women will look for anything to justify their actions so they can "save face" with the outside world. They are also masters of bending the truth (or outright lying sometimes) to make you sound like a huge a$$ to anyone who will listen. "I had to break up with jamesfromhouston. He was a borderline narcissist with mommy issues and never let me do anything I wanted. He didn't let me be ME."

Good riddance.

This exactly . They will make excuses for themselves for cheating ie he didn’t pay enough attention , buy me gifts , didn’t love me etc to justify their actions . Don’t fall for this .

 

[mikey2012]

This is the message you will get if you keep on contacting :

im sorry but I don’t want to talk to you anymore as i am seeing someone else . Please don’t message me ever again or I will have to block you .

 

[mikey2012]

I never get that, but if I'd get a text like that, I would send it back corrected. Just to mess with them.

How about this one?

dont contact me again . I don’t want to speak to you anymore .

or maybe reverse psychology:

baby I love you so much . I miss you so much . Please come and see me when you can .

 

[Lotus Effect]

That’s because you are emotionally invested.

As anyone in a relationship... but I figured that that is impliled.

Amazingly in this website, you can't post anything without a sh!tton ammount of explaining.

What I meant is, here I am again in the No Contact Thread. Another relationship went sideways.

I dumped. I NCed. It's all good. Emotions under control. Day 2!

 

[mikey2012]

As anyone in a relationship... but I figured that that is impliled.

Amazingly in this website, you can't post anything without a sh!tton ammount of explaining.

What I meant is, here I am again in the No Contact Thread. Another relationship went sideways.

I dumped. I NCed. It's all good. Emotions under control. Day 2!

Dont keep making the same mistakes ! Do not get emotionally invested .

 

[mikey2012]

Should you wish your ex happy Xmas happy NY?

 

[Lotus Effect]

Should you wish your ex happy Xmas happy NY?

Funny thing you were the one telling me not to get emotionally invested being the one asking such questions lol

thing is wait an hour and she if see sends you

if she does cool, if she doesn’t you got your answer,

you can always send her and tell her you’re in a different time zone.

But as the saying goes, no message still is a message.

 

[soulforge]

Advice for 2025.. The vast majority of females you will meet in the West are ruined.

Do not invest emotionally in these hoes.. serious lol

 

[DreamAgain]

Advice for 2025.. The vast majority of females you will meet in the West are ruined.

Do not invest emotionally in these hoes.. serious lol

Right on the money.

 

[Richard1201]

** As AI technology evolves, is it ethical to use AI-generated photos or bios in dating profiles to attract more matches? What are the potential implications for authenticity and trust in online dating?

 

[Zontyy]

I was awarded full custody of my son, the house we had together has potential buyers. I've been sticking to my gym routine and turned back to being a spiritual person reading my bible and personal study. I still do miss my EX sometimes the fun moments. I wish she could coparent and be civil but she needs help and I'm not the one not anymore. I'm concerned once the house sells she will disappear leave the state and run off to TN or FL, I just worry how it will affect my son I'll be relieved but he wonder why mommy isn't around anymore. He will be alright in the long run but It's going to be tuff for him.

 

[Barrister]

I was awarded full custody of my son, the house we had together has potential buyers. I've been sticking to my gym routine and turned back to being a spiritual person reading my bible and personal study. I still do miss my EX sometimes the fun moments. I wish she could coparent and be civil but she needs help and I'm not the one not anymore. I'm concerned once the house sells she will disappear leave the state and run off to TN or FL, I just worry how it will affect my son I'll be relieved but he wonder why mommy isn't around anymore. He will be alright in the long run but It's going to be tuff for him.

In a perfect world your son would be best with two loving, grounded parents. However, from what you describe your ex is anything but grounded. Maybe not even loving if she’s willing to abandon her child. In cases like this, your son is probably better off without the chaos your ex brings into his life and with only you there. Stability is so important for children. Bad parents cause more harm than good in most cases.

 

[soulforge]

I was awarded full custody of my son, the house we had together has potential buyers. I've been sticking to my gym routine and turned back to being a spiritual person reading my bible and personal study. I still do miss my EX sometimes the fun moments. I wish she could coparent and be civil but she needs help and I'm not the one not anymore. I'm concerned once the house sells she will disappear leave the state and run off to TN or FL, I just worry how it will affect my son I'll be relieved but he wonder why mommy isn't around anymore. He will be alright in the long run but It's going to be tuff for him.

Sorry to hear this man. Sounds like a tough situation to be in. Hopefully everything will come out right in the end. Stay strong