soulforge
Master Don Juan
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More often than not, chicks go through an initial period of relief after the break up.Day 5 of NC. The nights always seem to be the relatively hardest parts of the day because that's the only time I'm not preoccupied with something else. Unfortunately I learned of a post she put up through a friend. Happy, smiling, eating out. She's also been posting more frequently than when we were in the relationship. What do you guys think about this? I'm not sure if it had to do with this but had trouble sleeping after a few days of good sleep. Did manage to get some rest though. On to the next day... I'm planning on picking up a few more new hobbies today. I'll keep you guys updated.
Excitement about the future and looking forward to single life freedom again.
However this initial happy phase doesn't often last long, they experience the pain of the break up further down the line.
Sometimes even months down the line. I'm not saying this is always the case.
Some chicks will move on and not give a single crap about the break up.
In my case immediately after the break up, my ex was posting pictures laughing having fun etc..
Two months down the line, her posts where about heartbreak and making statements such as, no man will ever love her.