“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

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Do not come in here defending this BS. Honestly it's disrespectful to the whole group. Just be straightforward and admit that you succumb to your male hamster brain and found an excuse to break no contact. You can lie to yourself but don't lie to us.
Truer words have never been spoken.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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Weak mark, very weak. Accept it. It's hilarious and very beta. No amount of paragraphs will change that.

Nobody cares if it was day 4 or 40 - you contacted her on international women's day to send wishes to her and her mother.

Also - NC isn't to get your ex back - it's to help you move on.
 

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Murkserious, stay strong man. If you're drunk and feel like contacting her, visit this thread and write down what you're feeling at that moment. It'll help you to NOT give in to the urge and we'll talk you out of it!
Another massive coke binge, nearly sent her this:


Felt it summed up my feelings, it does, but she doesn't need to know that.
 

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Proud on you for not giving in to the urge, Murk!

Keep it going and know that it's just a matter of time. Eventually, these urges will become less and less and one day you'll realize "I'm over it". It's just a slow process that you got to sit through, stay tough...
 

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Thanks brother.

That song resonance with every man in this thread, so powerful.

Perspective = easy to say hard to achieve.
 

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Way to go, Murkserious. I would recommend not to listen to such songs as well. They might make you weak.
 

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So predictable.

Not heard from her in two weeks. Put some photos on Instagram of me and my dog, which of course gets attention from other women, so 15 mins after posting said pics the ex texts a pointless question.

On the plus side two of those women 'liking' those photos, I have dates lined up with them this week. One of them has been chasing me for three or so years and has just come out of a relationship, so I'm thinking there's gonna be some easy rebound sex there.
 

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My ex broke NC today after 2 months, wished me happy birthday.
I send her a thank you with a kiss smiley.

I'm happy she thought of me, and I'm not butthurt to ignore the message but sent her some love.
 

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Heard from her again. A couple of nothing texts during the week, and then last night once again asking if I want to hang out this week, even joking how it's a bi weekly thing her asking.

I guarantee if I said yes and went through with it the other guy would have no idea what was going on.
 

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Everyone has an Ex.

Some of you r relegated to the position of an Ex or has dumped a girl.

It doesn't matter.

Now, realise this, you currently have a long list of women in ur life. Your mother, sisters, nieces, cousins, friends, lovers, etc. I'm sure you understand this.

Your Ex used to be at the top end of that long list.

She has now been relegated to the bottom end of that long list. After all she is now an Ex.

Your current long list of women has not changed at all, only slots of positions were change.

Now focus on the women who is in the top spot for a change. She could be your mother, sister or even just an old female friend.

Spend time with them, they r currently in the top most positions of your list. Don't you think they deserve some attention for being there?

As for the Ex. She's at the bottom end of ur list, don't you think she deserves less attention from you?
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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So my ex’s housemate (one of five), who I genuinely had a good relationship/friendship with, helped him get out through his dad’s suicide, helped him get a job in sales which he still has to this day. Basically this guy would not speak to me on my ex’s order and said he’s caught in the middle which I understood and didn’t blame him for.

He adds me on snapchat literally 30 mins ago and sends me a snap of him walking with the caption “ex is a c*nt”

I message him saying why? Then turn to my colleague and say I bet they’ve kicked him out of the house. He replies “she got me evicted”. I say “so now you want me back?” He said yes what’s ur number. I give him my number and he says he’s gonna call me later after he’s picked up his new house keys.

Now I’m in a predicament. I basically now have the option to get the entire lowdown on my ex over the past 2.5 months. It’s too tempting. This guy is a legit friend who has had a rough time similarly to me so we naturally bonded, very alpha like me, even caught me texting a girl behind ex’s back and said “we’ve all been there” and covered for me like a G.

I’m going in boys. I’m on my way to get a fresh haircut from work then I’m gonna find out what’s happened with him but most importantly, what’s she been up to. It’s still no contact if her I haven’t spoken to her since Jan 14th
 

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So my ex’s housemate (one of five), who I genuinely had a good relationship/friendship with, helped him get out through his dad’s suicide, helped him get a job in sales which he still has to this day. Basically this guy would not speak to me on my ex’s order and said he’s caught in the middle which I understood and didn’t blame him for.

He adds me on snapchat literally 30 mins ago and sends me a snap of him walking with the caption “ex is a c*nt”

I message him saying why? Then turn to my colleague and say I bet they’ve kicked him out of the house. He replies “she got me evicted”. I say “so now you want me back?” He said yes what’s ur number. I give him my number and he says he’s gonna call me later after he’s picked up his new house keys.

Now I’m in a predicament. I basically now have the option to get the entire lowdown on my ex over the past 2.5 months. It’s too tempting. This guy is a legit friend who has had a rough time similarly to me so we naturally bonded, very alpha like me, even caught me texting a girl behind ex’s back and said “we’ve all been there” and covered for me like a G.

I’m going in boys. I’m on my way to get a fresh haircut from work then I’m gonna find out what’s happened with him but most importantly, what’s she been up to. It’s still no contact if her I haven’t spoken to her since Jan 14th
Phaggots spies on their Exes.

Phaggots can't seem to let go of their Exes.

Phaggots r like worms, always working their way into rotten meat and dead stuff.
 

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LOL.

Seek professional help bro and don’t you dare call me a f4ggot you chump.
 

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It’s not anger it’s confusion. You’re in no position to judge my sexual prowess or inclination, boy.
 

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So it's anger + confusion.

And phaggot like mindset.

Grow some balls.
You’re making no sense, I’m ending this “conversation”.
 

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You’re making no sense, I’m ending this “conversation”.
Very brave of you. I can respect that.

Does your bravery extends to conversations with ur buddy abt your ex ?

Prolly gonna succumb to phaggot whining the whole time. Go ahead, do the phaggot dance, u hv my permission.
 

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Day 50:

I’m thinking a lot about her lately. For some reason I was absolutely sure she would write me yesterday, but she didn’t. I’m kind of disappointed because I believed her BS and invested so much of my time In her throughout November - January.

Earlier today I had a strong urge to reach out to her, but I know it would bring me nothing good. I keep hoping she will eventually break NC, but I’m not even sure what I expect will come from it.

I’m happy I didn’t break NC. However, I would be even happier if I had forgotten about her by now.

Nevertheless, I’m Obviously in much better shape than in the beginning of the “break up”, so don’t lose hope guys!! It truely gets brighter with time, no matter how dark it might seem I’m the present!
 

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Ok so got the news I'd secretly been pining for.

My ex gf's ex housemate confirmed there have definitely been odd looking characters she's brought back since we split, his words not mine. He said she has no standards and I'm much better off.

I feel good knowing, liberating, not sad at all, more feelings of closure than anything.

He also confirmed she's quite a depressing, moany, negative person (true) and that I'm completely different as a person as I'm quite upbeat, life and soul kinda guy.

I knew all this anyway. I'm closing the chapter on this one. Abi, you're a c*nt
 
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