soulforge
Master Don Juan
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2 weeks short of the 5 month mark... still think about her pretty much every day, but doesn't really hurt as much..
Right now, my focus is purely in getting my shoulder healthy and getting back in the gym... even tho I miss her, I also can see more clearly how bad she was for me..
Also she was not genuine.. but fear of being alone, kept me with her..
I realise my own mistakes too.. i gave myself too easily to her... I should have made her earn my time and efficien.. I should have focused on my own goals and my own life, rather than on her...
That being said, I was only seeing her twice a week, so it's not like I spent too much time with her..
Where I also went wrong, was letting her move in with me...
MISTAKE.. this girls behaviour was not great... she did not deserve to move in with me..
My expectations from what I will tolerate in a relationship should have been much higher...
Guys, you should never fully commit to a woman, unless she is proving her worth to you.. she MUST earn that level of commitment, by treating you well..
If she behaves chitty, is inconsiderate, rude or disrespectful... do NOT waste anytime.. kick her ass to the curb..
Don't let her beauty or good looks fool you... always listen to your gut, it could save your life.
Right now, my focus is purely in getting my shoulder healthy and getting back in the gym... even tho I miss her, I also can see more clearly how bad she was for me..
Also she was not genuine.. but fear of being alone, kept me with her..
I realise my own mistakes too.. i gave myself too easily to her... I should have made her earn my time and efficien.. I should have focused on my own goals and my own life, rather than on her...
That being said, I was only seeing her twice a week, so it's not like I spent too much time with her..
Where I also went wrong, was letting her move in with me...
MISTAKE.. this girls behaviour was not great... she did not deserve to move in with me..
My expectations from what I will tolerate in a relationship should have been much higher...
Guys, you should never fully commit to a woman, unless she is proving her worth to you.. she MUST earn that level of commitment, by treating you well..
If she behaves chitty, is inconsiderate, rude or disrespectful... do NOT waste anytime.. kick her ass to the curb..
Don't let her beauty or good looks fool you... always listen to your gut, it could save your life.