Hey, iv been a lurker on this site for six months now, that's when me and the ex split, she ended it, the usual "I love you but I'm not in love with you anymore" she wanted to remain friends, I said if we ever met again, il be "friendly" towards her, but I'm not interested in being friends, I cut all contact immeaditly, unfriended her on fb, deleted her number and went complete ghost. It was hard dealing with that, but I'm a stubborn bast**d and I knew I'd never contact her again. (It was a 3yr relationship and we where just about to move in together wen she ended it btw). 3months after the split she text me on my birthday, "happy bday, hope you have a nice day" I had her number deleted, but after 3years together u tend to recognise it, I replied "thanks" two days later. Fast forward to last weeknd, 6months now from the split, and zero contact from either side, I wake up to a txt from the ex sent at half 3 in the morning (probably drunk) msg read:- "hey
how are you? I know this is so out of the blue, but wud you ever want to meet up for a chat sometime?"
I ignored it, then received another msg the following evening at six.
"Hey, I'm sorry, the girls were taking the hand last night and where sending msgs to people off my phone, I don't know why they messaged you asking to meet up, that was pretty mean, sorry again"
Iv been doing well so far.
Just wondered what your thoughts or advice is lads?