It's the companionship; having someone to talk to at night, talk to about a bad day at work, talk about something great you did, all that stuff... That's how @Carpathian explained it to me, and it really makes a lot of sense. It becomes a security blanket...
Indeed. But we must not let that influence us in the path we know we must tread to rid ourselves of these negative women who drag us down. Note, this is the "no contact" thread. You better believe it that she WILL contact you again if you go no contact, almost certainly if you were a half decent guy and were not an a$$hole. It's THEN that things get more tricky. It is actually MUCH easier if they do NOT contact you again. It is easy that way. But when they do, giving you the sob story, it'll never happen again, I love and miss you, I was going through a bad time, and all that BS, it is THEN, that you need to be strong. And many of us, myself included, have not been and we implode. To hug and kiss her and get physical with her again, it is so tempting, especially if we are in a barren patch with other women (and all of us know that feeling). So we get attached. Again. And then we get dumped. Again. That is why this is the no contact thread. It is much easier said than done.
Even if my ex tries to contact me, she'll have a hard time reaching me.
Block her in any possible way dude! Don't even give her the possibility to reach out.
You can look at a previous post a few days ago I asked that question. I got replies saying both block and unblock. I have decided that blocking typically means you're not over the person. Otherwise why would you have them blocked at all? I currently have her unblocked, I think as time goes on it shows that I don't give a ****. She can look at my stuff all she wants to. She can contact me all she wants to. I'm not letting her in again. I'd be happy to hear more opinions on the situation, but now if I block her it's going to show that I'm still thinking about her. My 2 cents.
QUIT CHECKING SNAPCHAT! and quit posting crap that she can see! If you can't control yourself, uniinstall it. It is useless garbage anyway. If you can control yourself, just don't share with her. It does not sound like you can though. You are delaying the process.
That's it right there! She was willing to let you go, and she would certainly do it again! She would rather be alone (or with someone else) than have you in her life. f*** her!!!!
Sometimes I feel like we're all going after the same women! LOL! She didnt care as much as you do. If you still want her continue NC. Wait 4 her to contact you. She will.
This is gold! Exactly what I needed this Friday night! Thanks man!
