"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Nice Gal

icequake_00

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I just recently met this HB8 at a party. She seemed like a really nice gal (not quite the typical party gal sort of character). We talked and it looks like she was quite into me. I number closed her as I needed to leave. I called her 3 days later but nobody picked up. I left her a voice msg asking her to return my call (though I stupidly didnt leave my number..then again she can check her miscall list to find it).

Well, now the question is how do I proceed from here? Should I give her a call again or should I just wait for her to return my call? I was planning to get her out for coffee this weekend. Any inputs?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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xsonik

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She'll come after you if she's really interested. If you want to call her, call her. Don't hesitate. Trust your instinct. Read "15 Lessons" by pook. It should enlighten you.
-Ron
 

NoBull

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Thanks for the tip!! I'll make sure to use it next ti.... wait a minute... this isn't a tip, it doesn't belong here!


Anyway, forget about her.
 

UltraMan

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Originally posted by icequake_00
though I stupidly didnt leave my number..then again she can check her miscall list to find it.
Don't assume that your number is in her list. I left a message for a friend a while back in a funny voice, thinking he would see it was me from the number and when I talked to him later he said my number didn't show up.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dukester

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Originally posted by xsonik
If you want to call her, call her. Don't hesitate. Trust your instinct.
I disagree, let her call u. she will call if she is interested. you will only seem desperate if u call her back.

if u do call her back, wait about a week. she's got your #, so dont worry about taht
 

icequake_00

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well...the problem here is i wont be in town for too long...and i would really like to know her before i leave
 
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