"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Nice Gal

icequake_00

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I just recently met this HB8 at a party. She seemed like a really nice gal (not quite the typical party gal sort of character). We talked and it looks like she was quite into me. I number closed her as I needed to leave. I called her 3 days later but nobody picked up. I left her a voice msg asking her to return my call (though I stupidly didnt leave my number..then again she can check her miscall list to find it).

Well, now the question is how do I proceed from here? Should I give her a call again or should I just wait for her to return my call? I was planning to get her out for coffee this weekend. Any inputs?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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xsonik

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She'll come after you if she's really interested. If you want to call her, call her. Don't hesitate. Trust your instinct. Read "15 Lessons" by pook. It should enlighten you.
-Ron
 

NoBull

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Thanks for the tip!! I'll make sure to use it next ti.... wait a minute... this isn't a tip, it doesn't belong here!


Anyway, forget about her.
 

UltraMan

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Originally posted by icequake_00
though I stupidly didnt leave my number..then again she can check her miscall list to find it.
Don't assume that your number is in her list. I left a message for a friend a while back in a funny voice, thinking he would see it was me from the number and when I talked to him later he said my number didn't show up.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Dukester

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Originally posted by xsonik
If you want to call her, call her. Don't hesitate. Trust your instinct.
I disagree, let her call u. she will call if she is interested. you will only seem desperate if u call her back.

if u do call her back, wait about a week. she's got your #, so dont worry about taht
 

icequake_00

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well...the problem here is i wont be in town for too long...and i would really like to know her before i leave
 
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