Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The new girl from mIRC

ascalon

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Hello guys,

My problem is , that I know one really cute girl but i can't invite her to a date.
We are both members of the Bulgarian Red Cross (that means i am bulgarian :up: ) and I see her twice a week.We dont have much time to talk during the gatherings but we chat a lot in mIRC. I really like her but i am trying to move away the conversations from computer to caffee. Tell me the easiest way to do that,plsss because I think it will be stupid if i ask her to go out from the internet ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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KillaCam

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This might be difficult to grasp, so bear with me.

When you're both in the same room, go over and..wait for it, say.. "Hey, want to head out for a coffee?"

Hell, be creative even! Just do it, you'll be fine.
 

ascalon

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KillaCam said:
This might be difficult to grasp, so bear with me.

When you're both in the same room, go over and..wait for it, say.. "Hey, want to head out for a coffee?"

Hell, be creative even! Just do it, you'll be fine.

Hah,that's easy man,but after the gatherings all members go for a beer or coffee , we are usually about 15-25 people,so it will be very hard to take her away from the group :(


I am trying to find out an original way to take her away but i dont come up with anything :(
 

KillaCam

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Hah, hard maybe, impossible, never.

She might take it nicely if you suggest coffee 1 on 1 :)

Or if it's possible, meet up outside of your regular meeting intervals. A movie, a coffee, or just to hang out. There is a good reason why regular things are the norm..because they work.

Either way, keep positive, chin up, and don't hang back. Get in there and do what you have to do.
 
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