"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The new girl from mIRC

ascalon

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Hello guys,

My problem is , that I know one really cute girl but i can't invite her to a date.
We are both members of the Bulgarian Red Cross (that means i am bulgarian :up: ) and I see her twice a week.We dont have much time to talk during the gatherings but we chat a lot in mIRC. I really like her but i am trying to move away the conversations from computer to caffee. Tell me the easiest way to do that,plsss because I think it will be stupid if i ask her to go out from the internet ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KillaCam

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This might be difficult to grasp, so bear with me.

When you're both in the same room, go over and..wait for it, say.. "Hey, want to head out for a coffee?"

Hell, be creative even! Just do it, you'll be fine.
 

ascalon

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KillaCam said:
This might be difficult to grasp, so bear with me.

When you're both in the same room, go over and..wait for it, say.. "Hey, want to head out for a coffee?"

Hell, be creative even! Just do it, you'll be fine.

Hah,that's easy man,but after the gatherings all members go for a beer or coffee , we are usually about 15-25 people,so it will be very hard to take her away from the group :(


I am trying to find out an original way to take her away but i dont come up with anything :(
 

KillaCam

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Hah, hard maybe, impossible, never.

She might take it nicely if you suggest coffee 1 on 1 :)

Or if it's possible, meet up outside of your regular meeting intervals. A movie, a coffee, or just to hang out. There is a good reason why regular things are the norm..because they work.

Either way, keep positive, chin up, and don't hang back. Get in there and do what you have to do.
 
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