"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The new girl from mIRC

ascalon

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Hello guys,

My problem is , that I know one really cute girl but i can't invite her to a date.
We are both members of the Bulgarian Red Cross (that means i am bulgarian :up: ) and I see her twice a week.We dont have much time to talk during the gatherings but we chat a lot in mIRC. I really like her but i am trying to move away the conversations from computer to caffee. Tell me the easiest way to do that,plsss because I think it will be stupid if i ask her to go out from the internet ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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KillaCam

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This might be difficult to grasp, so bear with me.

When you're both in the same room, go over and..wait for it, say.. "Hey, want to head out for a coffee?"

Hell, be creative even! Just do it, you'll be fine.
 

ascalon

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KillaCam said:
This might be difficult to grasp, so bear with me.

When you're both in the same room, go over and..wait for it, say.. "Hey, want to head out for a coffee?"

Hell, be creative even! Just do it, you'll be fine.

Hah,that's easy man,but after the gatherings all members go for a beer or coffee , we are usually about 15-25 people,so it will be very hard to take her away from the group :(


I am trying to find out an original way to take her away but i dont come up with anything :(
 

KillaCam

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Hah, hard maybe, impossible, never.

She might take it nicely if you suggest coffee 1 on 1 :)

Or if it's possible, meet up outside of your regular meeting intervals. A movie, a coffee, or just to hang out. There is a good reason why regular things are the norm..because they work.

Either way, keep positive, chin up, and don't hang back. Get in there and do what you have to do.
 
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